2007-01-24 11:01:18 · 28 answers · asked by shelby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
since he has already moved on then you need to do the same, saying how you still feel about him will be a a waste of time because he doesnt care about you anymore...
2007-01-24 11:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over it. There are 6 billion people in the world, almost 7. If he's moved on and he's happy don't go making his life complicated. Give yourself some time to go out and date other people to see if you are really "in love" or if you just feel lonely and can't stand to see him with another girl. Take some time to just be single - it's not the end of the world.
2007-01-24 19:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys appreciate direct language. Just tell him. If he doesn't respond the way you'd hoped, don't stay hung up on him. You'll only hurt yourself more.
Someone once gave me an interesting piece of advice -
"Choose the person that loves YOU, not the one that you love. Because the one that you love will walk all over you, and the one that loves you will never hurt you."
Ideally, you would find both in your true partner. But keep in mind that you can't make someone love you.
Good luck.
PS
If all else fails, I guess you could fake a pregnancy.
2007-01-24 19:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jerko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
i have faced this problem noes to foot.
this is what i didnt do or did i?
thats what you want to figure from this.
i once lived in the city with my cat.
and one day i was walkin down the street and saw that the sky wasnt cloudy.
i asked cat what his thoughts were and he smiled politely and said "cheer up little fellow the sky isnt gonna be there for you in the end anyways. even when your life is taking you under. youll just have to face the beast and relize that there is death in the world. no one told you where to run you missed the starting gun."
i took words into consideration.
my eyes were in swirls and all i could see was what i didnt kno.
hahahahahahahahahahaha
hes a great cat
his head gets a little droopy from time to time but more often then not he knos what to do and will help you through your journeys and make it all more worth while
2007-01-24 19:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by alex a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call his work 50 times... asking to speak to him. When he picks up the phone, say "I love you" then hang up quickly.
This will show him that you love him dearly and will demonstrate your need to be with him. Kind of like a stalker.
This will surely bring him back to you, but if it does not...then it's time to move on.
But being real now, let him go. It's wasted energy and time. There is someone else out there waiting for you.
2007-01-24 19:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Develin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u answered yur own question! u tell him,the problem is what are u wanting from this?If he HAS moved on it will have the same result.If u love him and want to tell him simply do so but theres a reason for it.U need to figure that out.If u want him back and that makes him want to,good.But expect what is (your seperated for some reason) and thats prolly where it will end.I guess his choice and not yours.I still care about and n ways love my x but i dont want her back and eventually she met some 1 else and i was very jealous. O nce I realised i didnt want her back I let go of it n met him,hwee was ok.
2007-01-24 19:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Scott (Dude) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and move on as well. Life is too short to pine over someone with which a relationship would probablynot have worked in the first place. Find your own worth, and find someone who deserves you. Obviously, he didn't.
2007-01-24 19:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by irie.girl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can see that he's already moved on, I wouldn't tell him. You'll save yourself some embarassement, and save him the akwardness of letting you know himself that he's moved on. It'll save you from getting hurt even more. Unless he's giving signs or you can sort of tell he wants you back or misses you. But if he has already moved on to new girls and to a new life then I wouldn't tell him. Try to move on yourself, it'll be best for you.
2007-01-24 19:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who broke it off and under what circumstances. There are few good reasons to reinitiate a relationship after it has suffered through a breakup. I would definitely not do this if he broke it off and hasn't been in contact since then.
2007-01-24 19:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and do it because you've got nothing to lose. He's already moved on...maybe he doesn't care one way or the other. I think you should just move on as well and find someone and other things to do with your life.
2007-01-24 19:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋