I am going out with a muslim girl but she refuses to tell her family about us. She says that I have to change my religion if I want to marry her. But why is it that Asian guys can marry a non-muslim girl and it's deemed ok. She is so frightened of getting caught that she won't even hold hands with me in public. I would do anything for her but circumcision seems a bit drastic! Why can't her family accept me the way I am? Muslim guys seem to get away with it!!
2007-01-24 11:00:46 · 20 answers · asked by Matt A 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am not slating members of her religion. I just want to understand why it's easier for a guy to marry a non-muslim than it is for a girl. I love my girlfriend so much.... i just wish there was a way for us to be together.
2007-01-24 11:18:55 · update #1
Isra_and _ismal, if you're happily married why do you want only girls to contact you? Your a hypocrite too.
2007-01-24 11:29:53 · update #2
That's exactly my point Bubbles. Muslim guys can marry whoever the hell they want but the muslim girls cannot.
2007-01-25 01:04:34 · update #3
They have more faces than a town hall clock. In paradise it says they will get WINE - when I point this out to muslims they say it won't be alcoholic wine!
These people will believe black is white, as long as it says so in the koran.
Makes me sick
2007-01-24 18:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by fistenpumpen 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Muslims cannot marry outside their Faith.
Male or female doesn't matter.
Muslims If an Asian or Indian or whoever marries a non muslim, then that person is NOT Muslim.
If I could speak to your 'girlfriend' I'd advise her to drop you like a hot coal and find someone who isn't AGAINST Muslims.
You accuse ALL Muslims yet you are in a relationship with one!
The only one who seems hypocritical, is you. Choosing a Muslim girl whilst slating members of her religion.
2007-01-24 11:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-03 00:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by kwiatkowski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 'girlfriend' sounds like a hypocrite, but you cannot clump all Muslims together in one group. She is not even allowed to be 'dating' you. That is a sin in Islam. We cannot date, just marry. Muslim men aren't even allowed to date. She is ashamed to let her family know about your relationship because she know it is unacceptable, and she knows her family would never approve of her dating and it goes against what is written in the Holy Quran. Don't clump all Muslims a hypocritical, because it is just your girlfriend who has these qualities. I'm sure if you met her parents they would be very straight forward with their opinions on this matter.
2007-01-24 11:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if a muslim girl marries a non-muslim guy their will be confusion of religion with the children. its more likely that the children will not be muslims. thats the reason for this rule. its not hypocritical or discrimnate against women. also, i think it is a fatwa given by imams rather than something forbidden in islam. the imams argue that the male may force the muslim woman to change her religion or the children's religion. there is some dispute over this issue.
2007-01-24 11:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by E.T.01 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
It is obvious that she has placed her religion before the relationship. The ball is in your court now. Either you can place her before your principles, or let her go.
Religion has a very strong effect on people, many place such value towards their religion that it comes first in every scenario. This seems to be the case with the family of this girl.
2007-01-24 11:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
they will never accept you. you will always be seen as the infidel, or non-believer. if you convert, that will only be the beginning. you will only be allowed to eat halaal, then you will have to grow a big beard, then you will be forced to pray 5 times a day. stand up for your rights, and for equality. dump her if you have to.
you are right, it is hypocritical. a muslim girl cannot marry a non-muslim, but a muslim bloke can marry whoever. also, a muslim bloke can have 3-4 wives. he can also divorce the wife by saying "i divorce you 3 times". no such rules for the woman.
good luck!
2007-01-24 11:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by Wing commander 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Because muslims arent suppose to date other people. And if her rents found out she would be in trouble. For her to change her religion would be a dumb idea. Mabye you should look into islam...
2007-01-24 14:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by litlkooljay 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i am going to marry a muslim guy and he does not expect me to change religion, but accepts me for who i am. i think you two need to talk.
2007-01-24 23:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the reason is that they are very traditional. she refuses to tell her family about you guys because of the way they will handle the situation. she is afraid of what they might do. her family cant accept you the way you are because they have different views and mindsets. their religion is extremely important to them, so breaking one of the rules of their religion is not an option.
2007-01-24 11:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋