im 12 my sis is 15 n my moms 42....now th prob is that they cant stp fitn n in th end 1 or th othr nd up geting hert n cin my mom cry makes me sad...now wenevr im home theres always bickering goin on n i want it 2 stp cuz now its getn 2 my hed, n now its getn outa cntrol.....plz hlp ppl id appresiate it thx a lot all a u....xoxox
2007-01-24 11:00:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell ur mom how u feel.
2007-01-24 11:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by razorsharpdut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom and I have been in the same boat. Try setting up an appoitment with a shrink and trick them into going if they cannot handle the truth. Go to the library and get books on the subject for them to read and totolly ignore them both till they do. Do you want an ulcer?
2007-01-24 11:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your mom is the adult, she needs to take control. Talk to your mom when your sister is not around and tell her how you feel. Be very serious about it and make sure she understands that it really upsets you.
Your sister is at an age where she knows everything and she is always right. Your mom needs to stop arguing with her, put her foot down, and make her straighten up.
2007-01-24 11:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to fight with my mom all the time and my brother couldtn stand it... im sorry i cant help but tell your sis if she is mad at your mom to leave her alone and just keep it inside and dont bother her
2007-01-24 11:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try talking to them both about how much you really don't like seeing them hurt each other. Or write them each a letter, maybe just by letting them know you care without blame might make them think about things?
2007-01-24 11:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the age they are going through. Is your mom single? If so that is why it is so hard on her, if not she needs to have dad or father figure step in and and speak up!
2007-01-24 11:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ... i thought i argued a lot with my mom... but seems like you have to deal with it really badly... but just call the police if your sister starts to hit your mom and gets really badly...and i almost did that before when that happened with my step dad, mom, and 14 year old brother... but now he is 16..&& i am 12 also!!!!
2007-01-24 11:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom to show your sister who's the boss. If wasnt for your sister wouldnt be in this world.
2007-01-24 11:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey i know that bothering the only way is to calm you mom and tell you sis to respect her if she keep going with it tell you mom to put her in a program to help her good luck
2007-01-24 11:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by tuchulapr0808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it. It's normal, really. Your sister is teenager and that's how teenagers act around authority figures. There's really nothing you can do other than wait until your sister moves out. But till then, they'll be butting heads, constantly.
2007-01-24 11:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by silence_within_chaos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them how you feel about it!
Then go to school and learn how to write a coherent statement, it took me like 5 minutes to even figure out what the question was!
2007-01-24 11:04:55 · answer #11 · answered by answerman 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋