she's very stubborn. I did not go on a break with her for another girl.
2007-01-24 10:59:15 · 18 answers · asked by Genesis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bro, I feel you.
I'm currently in a break myself...
I called the break, as she was too confused of what she really wanted, she had too many questions she couldn't answer...
I was frustrated and was feeling miserable, but most of all... I was hurt.
I didn't want either of us to jump into any conclusions, I was not ready to lose her, it's been getting close to 2 weeks now... I've been out with my friends, telling them what was happening, trying to keep my mind busy... It works while you are with them, but when you get home, it all comes back to you... you feel alone again, you know you miss her, yet you want to give her time to figure out what she wants, so you don't disturb her...
My girl is stubborn as well... so it will be hard...
I'm finding it hard... but at least I know how much I miss and love her knowing that she is not around...
Give it some time, once she is ready to talk again and you are cleared of confusion, you should both work it out... Communication maybe lost in the beginning, but if you are willing to go back and pick it up where you left off, everything should be just fine.
2007-01-24 11:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you don't know what you want, throwing her around like she's a peice of property or a meal (no, I don't want the beef, I want the chicken, no wait I'll take the beef). Why don't you give her some time and let her come back to you. If you're on a break there's bound to be a reason and just going in and out of a relationship with someone isn't healthy or fair.
2007-01-24 19:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Athena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I would ask why you went on the break? I believe if a relationship is strong, you should not have to go on a break from each other, for whatever reason. If you have issues you cannot work out, maybe you're not right for each other.
2007-01-24 19:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by Donkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one to answer...However I had a guy go on a break with me once, not because he wanted another girl either...the thing that won me over, was that I realised just what a good guy he was. He treated me with respect, and kept his distance, and just made sure that he was close enough to me that I still noticed him.
And if all else fails buy her an extravagant gift and tell her what a fool you were for letting her go!
2007-01-24 19:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by K E Nodding 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you have to decide do u want her or not? you cant just go braking up with a girl and getting back, breaking up getting back etc. once yuo figure out for sure if you want her back ask her tell her how u really feel be as open as possible and show her you really care.
2007-01-24 19:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~>Bre<~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the reason then? Don't be surprised if she actually moves on. She can't sit and wait for u. You have just gave her the green light to be with someone else. I go by this quote: " Don't ever regret anything because at one time it was exactly what you wanted." If you can't get over her, then try and talk to her but if she doesn't want to, you just gotta live with the choice that you made.
2007-01-24 19:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to her? Talk about the break and why it happened, show that what caused the problems in the relationship are now solved.
In short: you two are on break for a reason, so if that reason is void and you two still have feelings for eachother, talk it out
2007-01-24 19:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by nyrockfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may want to know that you realy want her back this time. Maybe her feelings are a bit hurt about the break. How long were you two together in the first place?
2007-01-24 19:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want her go up to her and confront her with the situation. Tell her that you want her but dont like her what you dont like about her and ask if she can improve in what you dont like. In order for a relationship to work theres gotta be trust and communication, withought such theres no such thing
2007-01-24 19:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by elysangel22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i need more info...for one who called the break? two when the break was called did she/you say call me when you want to?
if so there's your answer...just call her up tell her you've been thinkin about her and "yall"("us") a lot lately and that you were stupid and your sorry and that you hope she can forgive you and you understand if she cant and.....blah blah..
good luck !
2007-01-24 19:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by scglj031089 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋