I've only been dating my GF for 2 months now and she was quick to tell me that she loved me. It's harder for me only because I feel differently about saying it. I feel like now-a-days people throw those three words around just as much as they say hello and goodbye. I don't want it to become a reflex, like something I just say because it seems right. I've talked to her about it and explained it all to her. It's not to say I don't love her. I've already told her I love her. But it's saying it every day that I feel it might lose it's meaning, which is why I don't say it all the time. What should I do about this. She just can't get over this, and apparently I'm not seeing how much of a big deal it is to her because I don't think it should be. Anything would help, thanks.
2007-01-24 10:48:04 · 5 answers · asked by HotC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do things, that will prove your love. Maybe she doesn't feel confident about you loving her - or is she not sure about your relationship? It is good to hear this words, of course, but it doesn't need to happen on an everyday basis. Then it becomes so common.
2007-01-24 10:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by marmelada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just insecure and wants to make sure you know she loves you so it would be hard to dump her
OR
Maybe she just can't help herself because she loves you so much.
Don't feel trapped, just be yourself.
If she has a problem with you not saying it as much she will tell you then you can discuss it.
2007-01-24 18:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right!! That term should never be used loosely. I don't think she is the ONE for you. When the right one comes around, You'll want to say it all the time. Good luck
2007-01-24 18:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see--I have had bf's who have said it and not meant it and I have had bf's who have not said it and meant it more.
My current bf has said it twice in nine months. By his actions everyday I know he does. By making plans for our future I know he does. Anyone can say "I love you" but few can actually back up those words with actions.
I say--find yourself a girl who isn't so damn needy!
2007-01-24 18:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this will help.....and will prob. just get her mad at you but.....when she does say that, laugh your *** off and tell her you love yourself too......it's very mean but she'll eventually get annoyed and stop saying it.........she may also dump you.....sorry about that.
2007-01-24 18:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Chikk230 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋