ive had disastrous relationships and hate bein on my own, not havin any1 2share stuff with :-( but im only 24. am i a loser for giving it a go?
2007-01-24 10:47:05 · 35 answers · asked by babygirlscrivs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldn't need it at just 24 - go out with your mates, have fun, - it'll be easy to meet someone new.
Internet dating is for middle aged desperados, in the last chance saloon - like me :)
2007-01-24 11:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way as you, but I know quite a few people who have done the internet dating thing. I know a couple more who have actually gotten married. It works for some people, and doesn't for others. Either way, it doesn't make you a loser for trying to find someone. Just be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want in a guy before you post a profile. And just remember... a guy's picture isn't necessarily indicative of his personality. The GQ model type that makes your knees buckle could be a total a-hole, while the average Joe could be the best thing to ever happen to you. Be safe on line, and good luck to ya!
2007-01-24 11:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by yaddayaddayadda 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I wouldn't say loser!! But when I hear of people you met on the internet I just think saddo's!! I wouldn't do simply because you will not always meet the right person - there are weirdo's out there. Stick to the traditional methods. Get together with friends, and go out, meet someone that way!! I think it is sad that you feel you dislike being on your own. What is so bad about it - you can share things with friends and family!! You don't need a man to fulfil your happiness!!
2007-01-24 10:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Internet dating isn't 4 losers!!! It could b an opportunity 4 u 2 meet someone that maybe u otherwise wouldn't have. My main piece of advice though, is 2 b very careful! A lot of the time, people r not always what they seem 2 b on here!
2007-01-24 10:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I do not think its for losers at all. As I see it, you have an opportunity to meet people that you may not have ever come across in your day-to-day life. Plus, if you chat online a few times before you actually meet him/her, you already know (based on what they've told you anyways) if you would have any interest in the person, instead of getting fixed up, going out, spending $$ and wasting your precious time with someone whom you find you neither like nor have any common interests with. Good luck to you!
2007-01-24 10:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Doogie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you're not a loser at all, it's crazy to say but I met my current boyfriend of 3 years on the internet and things are fine with me. I thoght I was a loser for doing that but if things worked out I must not be that big of a loser huh? Good luck
2007-01-24 10:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think there is a chance of losing your life, because I've read so many of Internet meeting and they find them murdered and the one from the Internet is the killer. I wouldn't start a relationship on a Internet for anything in the world. It's to dangerous to take a chance. Find someone on your own, go out with your friends and you'll run into to someone that you can get to know and date.
2007-01-24 10:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it's not for losers
I haven't used it personally but a few of my good friends have and they've never been happier.
In this day it's hard to find the time to form a lasting relationship online dating gives you a chance to contact each other before meeting up.
I can go on about safety and stuff but you'll have heard it.
Give it ago,
2007-01-24 22:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can be. I heard of someone who was really taken for a ride financially after marrying someone they met on the net.
After all the money had been spent and debts to maximum on their partner's credit card had been achieved, they said bye bye.
Very sad indeed. I guess there could always be an exception to the rule, but would have to say at your own risk.
2007-01-24 10:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jewel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah. My wife signed up for an online service with a group of friends, all of whom were sick of the guys they were dating. After each had a few dates (terrible ones) they said "F this" and gave it up. Meanwhile, I was bored at work and laughing at bad online personal ads at the free site, when I found hers; well-written, funny and worth a quick response. I wasn't looking and neither was she, but it turned out we had mutual friends (and an enemy) so we ended up dating.
We've been married for seven years, and have two kids. We're also the happiest married couple we know.
Of course, we might be losers. Hard to tell. I'm sure our kids will think so when they're teenagers.
2007-01-24 10:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋