Okay, all of my life I have been kinda pretty, and I've been told I'm sexy. I am 5 foot 6 and 135 pounds. Also a DD chest, and yet I can't seem to attract anyone, I mean some people are attracted but they are all creepers. I just don't understand, what am I doing wrong? I mean, I'm smart, cute and funny, I don't get it. Every since my last relationship ended when my boyfriend moved away 5 months ago, nobody even looks at me... give me some suggestions... please... I feel so alone...
2007-01-24 10:39:21 · 12 answers · asked by Danzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as another note, I don't act slutty either, the reason why I attract creepers is because I am one of the only people who will talk to them and not be mean about it, and they won't take the hint that I don't like them, and I am smart, I have a 3.8 on a 4.0 scale.
2007-01-24 11:00:07 · update #1
didn't feel alone maybe your not looking for the right kinda person, i mean if your looking for guy who's only with you because of your looks than your going to amount to nothing, but if your finding a guy who is interested in you not just your looks. give it time. maybe shyness is a issue here.it makes sense. everybody is shy in a way. for the creepers get to know them a little he could be your soul mate. I'm speaking from the heart and its happen to more than just you and me.if you need some more help you can reach me at dabombbittner@yahoo.com
2007-01-24 10:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by dabombbittner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it you would like to hear? Your DD chest, why is that the 3rd thing you mention? Do you give the good guys no credit at all? I don't want to be mean but I hate questions like this! You are obviously fine, or maybe you aren't as smart, cute and funny as you think. Perhaps you aren't being friendly enough, or you just have to work on your personality, looks aren't everything. Some guys also want someone they can talk to and have a laugh with! You ask for suggestions, but you aren't leaving your self-description much room for improvement. And it isn't as though you aren't attracting anyone, it's been only 5 months since your last boyfriend. I know girls who've never even had boyfriends at all! Maybe you should just wait, talk to guys and find someone you like who likes you back and not wait for you to just "attract" someone. There isn't anything wrong with you, just wait until you find someone special.
2007-01-24 18:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the way you dress. You sound like someone who probably dresses too revealing. You say you attract creepers? Well, creepers are attracted to sluts. No offense.
Anyway, my suggestion to you is a nice makeover. Try to find clothes that are cute, but not so slutty looking. Get your hair done really cute.
Just keep in mind, having a DD chest isn't everything!
2007-01-24 18:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This title is so misleading, i've had friends since grammer school who have only had their first g/f when they were 23 years old.... If you broke up 5 months ago, i think it's just a matter of time rather than you doing something wrong.
2007-01-24 18:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by HopelessOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and flaunt your flaws because someday a person will love you for you and even though your smart, and cute, and funny some people might be too stupid to notice and if they are u dont want them anyways but keep doing what it is you do and someday that special person will notice you but if you want someone now and if they aint noticing you the best you could prabably do is wait
2007-01-24 18:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yer just too damn tall and pretty.. some people find that intimidating... No way I'd date a girl prettier than me I'm used to being the centre of attention...
(and NO I'm not kidding)
2007-01-24 18:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be yourself and wait. If you dont feel like you can wait then look around, if you see a guy you like go up to him and say hi. Dont just sit around and wait for love to find you help it out alittle
2007-01-24 18:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your attitude..Be more confident, don't act all puppy-eyes near men, walk tall, wear elegant clothes, stand out of the crowds.......I'm sure men will start buzzing around as soon as U do that
......and......how old R U ?
2007-01-24 18:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ella F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're looking in all the wrong places...
2007-01-24 18:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush it. you will find someone when u least expect it. trust me...the same thing happened to me. i thought no one liked me but it turns out that someone i didn't expect had that same feelings for me. so don't worry.
2007-01-24 18:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋