How long does it take for a shy guy to ask you out?

Question

I like a bartender. We only started conversing about two weeks ago. The problem is that he of course is working and our conversations are limited.

So, how long will it take for him to ask me out or ask for my number if he is in fact interested in me? He has complimented me and sort of stutters it out of nervousness. Which is why I think he is shy.

Is there something I should be doing? I'm at a lost.

Answer 1

When you are talking with him the next time and feel the time is right, tell him you really enjoy talking with him and would like to be able to talk without the interruptions of work. Ask him if he would like to have your number. If he says yes, then take out a pen and small piece of paper and write your phone number down for him. As you hand it to him, say something like: I'm looking forward to a phone call from you and a date if you would like. That's about as forward as you want to get with a shy guy, but this is what he needs to feel OK about asking you out.

If you have misread him and he's just being polite, he won't call. Then you will know it isn't shyness. I would rather know than agonize over it!

Answer 2

ask him out if hes giving you compliments he probably likes you but might be too shy to ask you out.

Answer 3

ask that boy