tells someone he's not even that close to that he has cold feet. I asked him about it but he won't admitt it to me. What should I think?
2007-01-24 10:14:53 · 20 answers · asked by Natalie L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Even if he was telling his friend the truth, I think it's normal for him or anyone to be nervous. I'm getting cold feet, sometimes, for my wedding. And I'm the BRIDE. Anyway, trust your man. Don't pressure him. Be sure he knows that he can talk to you, openly, when he's ready to talk. Good luck!
2007-01-24 15:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy, good news travels fast huh? Don't you think everyone gets cold feet in a sense? Was it another guy he said this too? I truly wouldn't worry about it! He's just got the normal jitters, just like you have, or will get! Your fiance is just thinking OUT LOUD, nothing abnormal...Give the guy a break, your nervous too, by just making a big deal out of it. Relax, and let it be a happy time.
2007-01-24 10:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by gonneville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for couples to have cold feet. He is telling you that he is excited and ready to get married so he sounds like he is. My grandmother gave me some wise advice on my wedding day almost 12 years ago. Pick your battles! This isn't worth starting a fight over.
2007-01-24 10:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe other people, listen to what he tells you..i think everyone gets cold feet, im sure my husband had cold feet but he never told me, and we are married now so it doesn't matter
2007-01-24 13:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, in social situations, we say things to be conversational - or even funny - then it is taken the wrong way.
This other guy may have said something about cold feet, and your fiance just said "yea" to not go against the conversation - and all of sudden he has cold feet.
It's happened to me before. I once answered "Mm-hm" to a co-worker of my husband, and all of sudden I think his boss' hair is too grey. AGGG.
Don't take it too seriously!
2007-01-24 10:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by apbanpos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats, but if you start now listening to everybody else but your spouse you are heading for a big disaster. You have to trust your spouse or there is no marriage or i your case no need to get married. if he tells you he's happy and can't wait then go with it till he tells you something different, any way i think everybody gets cold feet before their wedding.
2007-01-24 10:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by dari98dae99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a long, serious talk with him. If he has cold feet, it's completely normal. You need to find out why, and address those concerns as soon as possible.
2007-01-24 12:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wonder what is going on. Time for a heart to heart talk. You have to do it before you get married not after as the problem will still be there.
2007-01-24 12:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with something as big as a wedding im sure he wouldnt be able to hide something like cold feet from you, if he was nervous youd be able to tell
and dont listen to someone else, if your fiance says hes excited then thats how he feels
:)
2007-01-24 10:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jessabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋