ok so theres this girl and she goes to my school. I been friends with her since the beginning of the new semester (not close friends, just friends). I met her before my friend did but he is in my class. He just met her and he asked her to go to a movie friday. She is very nice and shes the type that wont say no cuz she thinks its rude. What do i do?
2007-01-24 10:07:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to be honest with the girl you like, and your friend because honesty is the best policy, but I would talk to my friend to let him know how you feel, and if it would be alright if you asked her out on a date if he really wasn't into her after that first date, but I would talk to him first to know how he would feel about it then I'd talk to her about how you feel that way she wont feel awkward around you because she knows your into her when she may be into your friend and not you, and then maybe y'all could come to a compromise, and understanding of how everyone feels; don't jump to any conclusions.
2007-01-24 10:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by ROBERT R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a bunch of time to ask her out, and didn't. Your friend was a latecomer, but took the initiative, and now he's reaping the spoils.
#1: Suck it up. If he's a good friend, let him have his chance, and if it doesn't work out (and your friendship can survive it) you can ask her out afterwards.
#2: Next time, remember that you can't take things for granted -- not even that a girl you like might still be available in the future when you're "ready" to ask her out -- so next time, DO SOMETHING instead of just sitting there.
Finally: you say she won't say no because she doesn't want to be rude? Well, first, you're assuming she doesn't like him, but she might -- and second, that means she would have said yes to you (even if she didn't like you) so WHY DIDN'T YOU ASK? Gz.
2007-01-24 18:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay low for awhile (not to long). Ask her out, nothing too intimate. You never know maybe in a different setting she's not all that. Also, the guy (your friend) he doesn't seem like he is a close friend. Explore and don't be shy!!!!
2007-01-24 18:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by rose g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mate, you are in a dilema. In my opinion you have to decide what is more important to you, your friend or thae gilr you are inlove with?
Anyway there may be another option, and that is to try and explain your friend , and let the girl decide, or just go to action and ask the girl out, "in love and war anything is allowed"
good luck mate , and think twice
2007-01-24 18:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by tonic_tears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is nothing , just cuz she date em doesnt mean she will like him. Girls like to experiment and they do it without thinkin or putting to much emotion. The best thing is to not give up and try again. But dont disrespect if she chose him there still more gold in the pot. You seem like your looking for the perfect girl and she will come.
2007-01-24 18:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by chewy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friend knows you like her, and he stills goes for her. THat might be just to see who has competition, or many other reasons. You should ask him, what he feels for her, or if he's doing it just because you like her.
2007-01-24 18:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out before your friend does! if your friend gets mad, tell him "sorry dude, i made the first move" and that you liked her first. if you don't, this girl and your friend may go out and when you see them together having fun, you'll wish you had asked her out cuz then you'd be the one in the hot seat.
2007-01-24 18:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she might like him and you got to work it out with your friend fast before it gets ugly and you lose the girl and they guy.
2007-01-24 18:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by HopelessOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude,im kinda in the same situation cept im love sick(see my question)anywho i think you should tell ur friend maybe even her then if u want ask her out sometime after friday
2007-01-24 18:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked her to a movie. That doesn't mean they're married. Ask her to hang out with you.
2007-01-24 18:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋