sorry to hear about it bro. fact is, shes gone, most likely not comin back. you seem like your a great guy and have a lot of love to give, my advise is to find someone who wants all of your love and will give it back. it will be much better in the end just hang in there. ive been in your position many times and now i know how dumb it was to just be all depressed and **** when shes out having fun. if i knew what i just told you, it would have saved me a lot of tears and i would have found my wonderful girlfriend a lot sooner! just hang in there and let her go
2007-01-24 10:16:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/NIb9u
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 23:52:30
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answered by ? 3
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Here's the thing, sir: you're young, and your body is PUMPED full of hormones right now. You've heard of a woman's menstrual cycle making her cranky around a certain time of the month? Well, puberty is just like that, only it's non-stop and multiplied by ten.
In other words, this isn't about you loving this girl; it's about your brain and body being overrun by hormones, so that you can't think straight and everything is heightened. At your age, and with the level of hormones in your system, it's a miracle you don't cry over dropping a sandwich. Seriously! Guy or girl, some people get so overwhelmed by their physical state during puberty that they make horrible decisions, form ridiculously intense one-way emotional bonds, cut themselves, and all sorts of other stuff.
The bad news: not much you can do about it, except learn that you're attempting to justify your emotional state by calling it "love", but it's really 99% hormones.
The good news: by the time you're out of puberty, you'll be clear-headed and no longer overrun by hormones -- and able to give advice to young men, just like I'm doing with you.
Hang in there, and seriously, six years from now you won't even remember her full name.
2007-01-24 10:19:58
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answered by daveowenville 4
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Dude I know how you feel, I am going thru the same thing.
What I would say is try to distract your self, hang out with your friends, but also talk with her and see if she wants to at least be friends so you can keep in touch. You have to be strong though and not feel sad and not talk to her about how much you miss her and all that. When she sees that you still hang around but are just being friends it could be that she gets to a point and says maybe I should really try to be with him again. Does not mean its going to happen but you can try if you really want to be with her.
Hope everything turns out for the best, good luck bro.
2007-01-24 10:39:28
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answered by just me 1
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-25 18:10:43
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answered by ? 3
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You will feel this heavy weight under your chest and it's perfectly normal.. While there is no quick fix , you should try to remain active in your social life and not stay at home and sulk because that's a good way to slow down time. Give it a few days, and you'll feel better.
2007-01-24 10:15:05
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answered by HopelessOne 2
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I feel you bruh, I just broke up with my girl and honestly you brush the dirt off or at least try dont become stagnant you have to move on. go out by some new clothes,go on vacation just do sumthin bruh get your swagg back you know go back to the time when you didnt have a girl. and trust me when you start doin that girls will notice. Dont get hung up on her bruh trust me, do your thing then if she wants to come back then see how you feel
2007-01-24 10:19:48
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answered by tha1mix 1
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well good nick, I HATE U!!!!!! tears in ur eyes U ****** LIAR!!!! u dont even think of me,not even when we had sex!but buddy ol pal,its too little too late,you had ur chance unfortuanatly u blew it.if u want to get back together its not going to happen!
2007-01-27 02:51:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Have you tried talking to her since you broke up? Maybe she's changed her mind. Maybe not. It's worth a shot (but only one!).
2007-01-24 10:13:06
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answered by tony1athome 5
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stop talkin about her, thats how u get over somebody
2007-01-24 10:15:32
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answered by Boi Crazie 2
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