we've been going out for two years and latly hes been implying that hes tired of the same old things in bed but im perfectly satisfied... any sugestions?
2007-01-24 10:04:07 · 16 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him what he wants to try, maybe you'll find you can be even more satisfied, maybe you're only satisfied b/c you don't know any better! my husband and i have been together for 11 years and we still find new things to try!
2007-01-24 10:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can buy some books with different positions and ideas.
Rent some DVDs to spice things up, you might learn something that you didn't know before.
Try some toys or even introduce a dress up night!!
The key is to be creative!
2007-01-24 10:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! try something new...talk to him find out what turns him on and be open minded to try new things. Even though your "perfectly satisfied" its a relationship so both parties need to be satisfied.
2007-01-24 10:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is tired try something different roll play...Do things that are not normally done, dress sexy do a lap dance feed him naked have more 4 play let him have his way with you...Or I would hate to tell you this with that line he may be seeing some one else. So step your game up...Never leave your man unhappy always put him to sleep with a smile.
2007-01-24 10:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then spice it up sweetie! Do stuff you have never done before... outside... new positions, shower, get some toys. buy a new outfit. get some chocolate and lick it off of him. have him tie you up. Do it someplace public. to spice up your sex life is a win win situation.. you both will have fun. play a drinking game like quarters but switch up the rules.. this fun ... done it before. for every rule... make the other person do something to you and vise versa for when they make a rule. it can be timed .. whichever you like. start off making it strip quarters... for everyone made the other has to take something off.. then after 3 make a fun sex rule.
good luck
2007-01-24 10:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by anndee1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and ask him how he would like to change things in the bedroom. It's that simple. Ask, and he will tell. Then, maybe the two of you can come to a compromise on what you would be willing to try with him.
2007-01-24 10:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Licia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try different things than your used to doing, or things you've never done before; be sexy, creative, and do it in a way that you would want it done; use books or any kind of information to spruce it up a little.
You might want to consider that he is getting it somewhere else because why would he be bored. think abou it
2007-01-24 10:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by ROBERT R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book and try some things new and different. Outside sex, car sex, furniture sex...... Tease him for a long time before you let him into the Big Finish. Tease him, all day, then make him wait for it.
2007-01-24 10:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest he is looking for an excuse to break up --- or ask you to do something you wont feel comfortable with --- im sorry if he was still in lust with you he would find ways to make the "same old thing" interesting
2007-01-24 10:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to spice it up , play some games ,, you have to be more flexible and not settle for the "same old" have a good time !
2007-01-24 10:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by wishinew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋