My boyfriend and I have been together for about a month but he has been my friend before we were together. I really like him and i dont want to dump him. :He is very shy and quite but he does listen. The problem is that I dont talk much and neither do he. He is the kind of person that actions speak more than words. But he never calls or anything. I really think that hes scared but I dont know. Please help
2007-01-24 10:03:27 · 13 answers · asked by Twizzlers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please be serious
2007-01-24 10:11:49 · update #1
Yes he can speak english... by the way i'm 13 i know i'm young but i want answers
2007-01-24 10:47:45 · update #2
you need to tell him what you said here - if he does not know his attitude is hurting you, how can he have a chance to put it right?
2007-02-01 05:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably really nervous. you have to realize that if this doesn't work out your friendship is also on the line and that probably scares him. get together with him and ask him how he feels now that you guys are dating. if he barely says anything then it's probably a touchy subject for him. and plus you guys are young so he probably doesn't know what to do or say. just find some things that he likes that you guys can do together and after a while he will open up. also reassure him that if the dating aspect doesn't work out you guys will still be good friends.
2007-02-01 07:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by ber-ber21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a decrease to the chase variety of individual; spectacular sufficient of the time to no longer end yet I omit it on occasion. right this is my take: he remains enjoying the sector particularly together with her. I heavily doubt that became basically the 1st time she'd had touch with him because of the fact which you 2 have been given returned mutually. spectacular now he's have been given 2 women individuals on the string and that's unlikely to alter except you're making it substitute. If and while that occurs he gets in touch with a style of alternative lady pals of his and basically shop the twosome factor entering into user-friendly terms with different gamers. Sorry, and stable luck
2016-11-26 23:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13, you should remain as just friends. What do you expect to be different now that you are "dating"? It's not like you guys can really do too much as far as movies, dinner, dancing. You are too young to be dating anyone. Remove the boyfriend/girlfriend labels and things will go back to being just fine. Good Luck
2007-02-01 10:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want my advice you may not like it i don't think he cares as much as you say if he did like you you would be the one he'd be talking to and stuff. maybe hes waiting for something else to come by dump him and get on with someone else. this is sad and boring that you took 1 month and still hes action whoppe do you just want that ??? nope not you have to be firends and communication is it.
2007-01-31 13:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his shy because you and him were friends before yall went out and give him a little time to reconize you yall bearly when out for a month.Go out with him in a date a date that you and him will enjoy,Hope that works out.lol.good luck*
2007-01-24 10:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by housouthside 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first calm down and think. what do you think of him as like
a serious boyfriend or a regular? when he asks you to split up dont cry it wont make things better it will make it worse so if you want to stay with him do as he asks dont be fussy about it.
well if you need more advice let me know at iolani_palace_lauren@yahoo.com
2007-01-24 10:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shud talk to him openly... ask him why he is nt calling you and stuff.. ask him if he really loves u or not? anyway you are still young to be in a relationship.. your main concern shud be studying
2007-01-24 19:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by jaison_healer18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come right out and ASK HIM. ask him what he'd like to talk about. Ask him questions ...especially ones you know he'll know the answers to...that way he will get more confidence about talking to you, and thus more confidence in himself...good luck
2007-02-01 07:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will talk to him about this problem an see what you both can work out
2007-02-01 04:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by SGT SEXY MAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋