trying to get my attention, like talking flirting with someone in front of me and talking to my friends, even though he doesn't talk to them at all. I guess its just because of the thought of me being there. He stares at me just because I talk to a guy that I intend to like so much. What do guys do to get your attention? What are the things to watch out for? He kept telling me that I would meet someone else and since I have done that, he stares at me with a look that I don't really understand. He stares at me in a non-smiling kinda way even though he said we had so much fun together before. What is going on? Does he still like me?
2007-01-24 09:58:26 · 18 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He dumped you because he didn't want to be with you, but now that you've found someone else, he's jealous. He probably wasn't expecting it and doesn't want to feel it, but nevertheless he's jealous and trying to figure out what to do. That doesn't mean he wants you back, it just means he's confused.
So, help him out.
1. Would you go back to him if you could? Then give him a shot; pull him aside one day and say "as you can see, I can get other guys, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't rather have you. Want to give it one more shot?" He might say no, but perhaps it'll help him understand that his jealousy is separate from wanting to date you -- or perhaps you'll hook up again. Hard to say.
2. Do you not want his attention? Then tell him so. Say "Maybe it's my imagination, but I catch you staring at me a lot. You broke up with me, and I'm sure you don't want to date me again, but are you feeling jealous? 'Cuz a friend of mine say guys go through that a lot with people they're not interested in, which is fine -- I know it doesn't mean you want to hook back up -- but I wanted to make sure it was that and not something creepier."
3. Are you not sure? Figure it out before you do something about it.
2007-01-24 10:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling the guy was insecure and didn't feel he was good enough for you. I would be totally nice to him, and would even tell him hi! Goes to show you aren't lowering yourself to his silly game, and you are mature, and I guess in the long run "better than that!" I think he liked you all along, and maybe in a weird way -worshiped you! But also was too afraid of you to keep the relationship going...
2007-01-24 10:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for the break up part no clue, But i'm thinking he regrets it, he's trying to make you jealous... here's things to watch out for
. if he's hanging around your friend and pretending to smile/ laugh a lot
. if he acts like he's ignoring you, but you catch him staring..
. if he all of a sudden starts flirting with someone when you walk into the room
that's all the advice I have ^_^
2007-01-24 10:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Brianna C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We will never really understand guys, as they will probably never understand us. That is a bummer that he acted that way. But ask yourself this... do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy that is that immature? If he acts this way now, imagine how he will be if you two are dating! I say move on and show him that you are not willing to play his little games. Find a guy who is secure enough to tell you what he wants and what he feels.
2007-01-24 10:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by brigitty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know but, I am going to keep checking back because I would like an answer to that question too. Men/guys are so hard to read. That look can mean anything from love to extreme hate.
2007-01-24 10:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this guy has some mixed feelings. He may still feel some attraction for you but obviously something didnt click for him. My advice would be to move on and find some one more open and honest. If it bugs you enough then I would suggest you be straight with him and ask him what is up.
2007-01-24 10:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's controlling and doesn't know what he wants. I wouldn't care at this point if he still liked me or not. I think it's about time for you to cut him off completely.
2007-01-24 10:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Licia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he started to have feeling for you deep feelings and didn't know how to react to them. Yes he still likes you because he is only doing that trying to make you mad or jealous.
2007-01-24 10:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your BF ought to declare? how is his relationship together with his brother (the two week guy)? What does the ex(the two week guy) think of of you and his brother relationship? If this is iffy, and your relationship with your BF is powerful, then i could purely stay clean of his family contributors thoroughly and construct your relationship with your guy. If he has a solid relationship together with his brother and needs to maintain it, then maybe the two one in all you will ought to work out him with out the toddler-drama-momma recent. uncertain the thank you to proceed with the blood-sis. maybe your guy ought to have a heart to heart on my own together with his sister, tell her truthfully approximately you and your relationship, and then ask her to work together with you with out toddler-drama-momma recent, then have sis make up her very own strategies. Then, enable the chips fall the place they might.
2016-11-01 04:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you and I are gong through the same thing...my ex boyfriend does the same thing, he still likes you, he just doesn't want to admit it.
2007-01-24 10:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋