i know this may sound dorky, in a way, but...i really like this guy my grades are sooo important to me, and i don't want any distractions. every time i have a crush on someone, i think of them and only, even during my classes. it's so frustrating, but i sincerely cannot help it!!!how can i "convince" myself to stop liking this guy.
2007-01-24 09:50:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This seems like a popular question...
Anyways, getting over a crush is one of the hardest things you will ever do. ;)
But it's possible.
One. Decide if this guy is really all that or if you've just fantasized so much about thing that he seems perfect to you.
Two. Try not to daydream about him. If you find yourself starting to daydream or think about him, force your thoughts onto another subject. This is hard but it works. If you're not thinking about a person, you won't like them like crazy.
Three. Try to stop contact with him, at least until you're completely over him.
Four. Don't make efforts to make yourself think about him. For example, if you know he's going to be at a certain place at a certain time, resist being there too.
Five. Realize that you have more important things to worry about - like your school work. :)
Hope this helps!
2007-01-24 09:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Basiate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop obsessing. Does he know how you feel? Are you infatuated or actually like the guy? No guy is worth your grades.
You are thinking about him in class because you are unsure as to whether you two have a relationship.
2007-02-01 09:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Escape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to stop liking him. You just need to stop focusing on him. Finding something else to do that's more fun is a good start.
2007-01-24 09:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear an elastic band around your wrist, and every time you feel your mind wandering, you SNAP it hard. This is used in behavioural psychology for people who have tendency to obsess.
2007-01-24 09:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you're in simple terms fascinated by intercourse and to youthful to be doing it..in case you do be certain you're secure..You shouldnt experience ashamed for being curious..I didnt have intercourse til i became 21 and it became the terrific concern I ever achieved. properly oral is fantastic yet you need to attend til your older to do issues like that.I dont think of your obsessed, you need to attend and do it with somebody you like.
2016-12-12 19:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself a certain time each day to obsess and then back to work it is...Like only between noon and 1 and that's it...but you choose the 1 hr and then stick to it ....you can do it.
2007-02-01 07:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to stop liking the guy just realize there is a time for fantasy if your grade are that important to you it couldn't be to hard
2007-02-01 09:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by abbykgizmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an F on next test,see how u feel, guys come and go but school needs to be first then a love life, for your schooling leads to a better way of life,,,,,
2007-02-01 06:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by daddys eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick out a flaw of his and make it seem like the biggest thing in the world...like one day i saw my ex crush wearing his hood up and it was DORK CENTRAL becuase it was really small and skin tight to his head!! ahhh hahah i couldnt stop laughing and that made me realize that i would want to walk around with him like that..its just embarassing
2007-01-24 09:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about whoever you are obsessed with but donot make them the center of your life.your studies are important too so try to be alert for yourself
2007-02-01 04:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋