I'm working with this amazing woman. I thought that she was interested in me, because only a few weeks ago we exchanged compliments. (she said that I look marvelous and few days later, I told her that I think that she's a gorgeous looking woman and she said that I made her day). we had some small talks since then and I thought that she was into me. so today, I went to her and asked her if she would like to join me when I go shopping in that store that we talked about before (she was curious about this store), her reply was- I don't know if I have a day off soon. then I said- we could go on sunday. she replied- Can I get back to you on this? well, I tried. I really thought it could be a nice opprtunity to get to know her better. I have a big crush on her and I don't know if I did something wrong. Do you think that she's not interested? Shall I move on with my life and forget her? I just feel that if she really liked me, she would say yes. Was I being rejected politely? Thanks..
2007-01-24 09:44:08 · 10 answers · asked by luckystrike_x007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not into you. What you consider flirting, she considers being friendly. Some women are too nice for their own good and have a hard time letting guys know that they are not interested. Back off. Back way off. Maybe even apologize for coming on too strongly and tell her you were confused by some of the signals she was sending. If you keep on going after her right now you are going to be "The Guy At Work Who Won't Leave Me Alone." Give her some time to get to know you better. If you still have feeling for her in a couple months ask her again, but don't be too persistant, or you will come across as being creepy.
2007-01-24 10:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but I dont think shes into you. If she was interested she would have made time to go to the store with you. Or she would have suggested another time to go. Girls know what they want and if something comes along like you did and puts himself out there they are going to take it if they want it. I am sorry to say you were rejected politely. If I am totally wrong about this she will come to you and make the next move. I would lay low from her and let her come to you if its meant to be.
2007-01-24 09:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually believe you were being rejected politely. But she just gave you a compliment, saying that you looked marvelous, doesn't mean that she's necessarily interested in you. She was probably just giving you the compliment because you looked nice that day.
2007-01-24 09:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Licia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't take it so hard.... maybe she is trying to rearrange plans or something.... but as a guy i definitely would not press the issue to much... if she is not able to go on the sunday, let the day pass, and then ask if she would like to go another time... if she still beats around the tush, i mean bush, then yeah, she is only being polite...
2007-01-24 09:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by I Know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't necesssarily dropping you. It could be that she had other plans for this Sunday. Also, it could be that she doesn't want to go shopping with a guy. Some girls would rather be taken out to dinner and a movie.
2007-01-24 09:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look she probably was nervous or just had broken up w/ someone.u noe women when they break up with some one it takes time for them to go out again.or she porbably likes u and someone else and is not sure whom to chose. just tell her how much u love her and ask her does she like u. she HAS to be honest with u on that question. if she says yes than ask her out. I hope you to get married one day LOL good luck :-) !!!!!!!
2007-01-24 09:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bro, just had to answer you... forgive me.
She said to let her get back to you...
So are you going to keep pushing when someone asked to let them get back to you?
It seems like we all get frustrated and want to move on when we get rejected, but have we ever thought that sometimes it might not be the time yet???
Let her get back to you and don't push... else they run.
2007-01-24 09:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm she might be or she just might not have anytime lately. try asking her again keep on showin that u r interested in her and she should warm back up to u again
i think she is interested just try inviting her something else
and she might accept and if u were being rejected at least she did it nicely
2007-01-24 09:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is a busy person? Maybe she really does need to 'see'. I would wait until Friday and if she hasn't replied by then, either ask casually again or forget it.
2007-01-24 09:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by nkbapbt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were, sorry!
2007-01-24 09:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋