how do u get over a five year relationship?
2007-01-24 09:37:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find something to do with your time now that you have more of it. Plan a vacation w/ one of your gf's or something, find a new hobbie. Buy a sports car? lol I think the only thing that can get you over your relationship is time and you might as well go out and try to have some fun in the meantime.
2007-01-24 09:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by xdeffxdiffx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and have some fun! Try to do things with your friends, meet new guys. Don't force yourself into a new relationship too quickly, but a little flirting and a few dates is fun and helps A LOT!
Good luck.
2007-01-24 09:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. You should hang out with family and friends because they are the people that care for you and love you. Just get yourself busy with other things. This is the only way I know how to help. Just be true to yourself and try not to think so much about it. Life is filled with so many disappointments and sometime we can think why does this always happen to me. Just try your best to be with someone else and follow your heart in the process!!
2007-01-24 09:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by To Remain Anonymous 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you keep the idea of the person in your mind, and emphasise their positive qualities - while deleting all those negative things about them and your relationship.
Take time out to notice the negative qualities, and make you make large, bright colorful pictures of them in your minds eye. This way you'll condition yourself to take a more realistic perspective.
Be petty and vicious, without censorship.
2007-01-24 09:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jason E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think that it is in your past and get a new relationship.
2007-01-24 09:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to be hard and it is definitely going to take a long time. but you should keep yourself occupied. stay doing something so that you don't have to think about the pain. try to find someone new, you may not want to but you have move on.
2007-01-24 09:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with time and support of friends. if you are a religious person, read the bible.the bible can help you over come any problems in life. let me know how it goes.bless.
2007-01-24 09:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by ms attitude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that stinks you try to move on thats the only thing you can really do
2007-01-24 09:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard i know you just move on
2007-01-24 09:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date somebody else
2007-01-24 09:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Restricted 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋