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this guy just told me he did not like me for me he liked me for my boobs and butt anf looks my cuzz is out looking for him right now! i reallly need someone to talk but not my fam and my friends will tell me he is a jerk but i need to cry but to who

2007-01-24 09:11:24 · 17 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

my cuzz is goin to hurt him my cuzz is a boy

2007-01-24 09:20:39 · update #1

17 answers

o man thats not kool...if u need 2 talk or somethin u can email me or IM me ill b here its yahoo: harsh627@yahoo.com...that guy is def a mean guy

2007-01-24 09:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by harsh627 2 · 1 0

Good news! Your boobs and butt -- two things that are a part of you not easily changed -- are attractive! Seriously, that's the thing you should be getting out of all this.

Yes, this guy decided your personality was sub-par, but that is the judgement of a guy whose OWN personality is sub-par, because (based on his actions, certainly) he's a jerk. So, odds are your personality is terrific (as are your boobs and butt, it would seem) so you have nothing to worry about and your loser guy has gone away without you having to dump him.

However, what if you DO have a bad personality? I wouldn't trust this guy's opinion, but perhaps someone more credible might suggest the same thing in the future.

Let me give you the advice I was given by an older friend, when I was a fourteen-year-old boy dumped by his first girlfriend who said (during the dumpage) "I never liked your personality, I just liked the physical stuff." The advice was this: "You're lucky, because you can change your personality, but you can't change your looks."

Trite and shallow? Sure, but it did give me a clue that I might be a less-than-stellar person, and it was sufficient incentive to start taking an honest look at myself to see if there was something about my personality I wasn't proud of. It made me a better person, and the next girl (and the next, and the next, and so on) were all likely attracted to me in part because of self-improvements I'd made.

Good luck, and enjoy those boobs and butt of yours.

2007-01-24 17:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0 0

"cuzz is out looking for him right now"

Why? Does your 'cuzz' have nice boobs and butt??

Why don't you want to hear that he is a jerk??

He is ya know - that's how girls get pregnant and then raise kids with no father around.

2007-01-24 17:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hey chic if you want a girl to girl talk you can hit me up at smalle_22cr@hotmail.com... Don't worry I am not gay.. lol!!! Look at it this way that he told you exactly how he felt and that was good instead of leading you in to something and that is not the way that things are... He is honest but mean... You are too good for him anyway, he'll get a girl that might only like him for his looks and money. What some people fail to observe is however you treat someone it will come back to them... Just keep your head up and if you need someone to talk to hit me up the email address is above.

2007-01-24 18:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by smallebabe 2 · 0 0

boo, i no how u feel

Reality Check
Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with$86,400. Imagine there is a bank that credits our account each morning with $86,400.

It carries over no balance from day to day.

Every evening deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day.

What would you do?

Draw out ALL OF IT, of course!!!!

Each of us has such a bank.

Its name is TIME.

Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.

Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose.

It carries over no balance.

It allows no overdraft.

Each day it opens a new account for you.

Each night it burns the remains of the day.

If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours.

There is no going back.

There is no drawing against the"tomorrow."

You must live in the present on today's deposits.

Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness, and success!

The clock is running.

Make the most of today.

To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade.

To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train.

To realize the value of ONE-SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident.

To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND, ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics.

Treasure every moment that you have!

And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, specialenough to spend your time.

And remember that time waits for no one.

2007-01-24 17:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Daraweesh rocks!=) aka Shankooty 3 · 1 0

Sometimes it's easier to cry to a stranger....what you say isn't going to be held against you in the future...on the other hand, strangers don't care as much about your success as your family and friends do...and they are a whole lot quicker to be mean and harsh!
Good luck!

2007-01-24 17:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 0 0

First of all relax second tell him that he is a joke and that you deserve someone so much better that him, tell him that there are millions of guys who are dying to meet you but not because of your boobs because of the person that u are.

2007-01-24 17:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by thegirl1992nextdoor 2 · 0 0

I feel bad for you. You will always wonder if guys like you, or just the way you look. Try to downplay your looks if you want to find the guy who really likes you for who you are and wants to stick around. Good luck.

2007-01-24 17:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by yendyssixela 2 · 0 0

There are shallow people wherever you go. Rest assured he's not the only one, but also rest assured there are plenty of guys out there who arent shallow, and who will like you for who you are.

2007-01-24 17:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if u got hotmail

crazyman0005@hotmail.com

ill listen but i only got till 11:00

2007-01-24 17:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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