my boyfriend treated me like I was the world until I became pregnant with our daughter. Since then he treats our daughter like he doesn't really like her a whole lot. Im not allowed to have a job, or go to school. he says that I should just stay home and take care of our kids, (he has two other kids that live with us from a previous relationship)
2007-01-24 09:01:13 · 10 answers · asked by shortbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i here ya girl im in the same boat as you.So his names Derek and he treated me so right like i was his world too!Until i got pregnant with his son.Now he treats me like im a dog!He tells me to not wear too much makeup and tells me how i can and cant dress.But having two kids from a prevois relationship has not happened to me.So i really can't tell you to do about that but people are telling me to go back with my mom and live with her without my boyfriend.So about all the other stuff i would just keep my head up and try to hang in there.
2007-01-24 09:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get this guy from a chunk of ice....he is stuck in the cave man days....he must of been frozen a long time and does not realize that it is 2007. You need to stand up for yourself and tell this guy what you want because no one else is going to do it for you!!! If he refuses to listen than you need to look out for #1 which is you and get the hell out!! He is treating you like a maid and wanting you to be a nanny to his children!!
2007-01-24 17:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would get out of that relationship because he has some insecurities inside himself to not want you to better yourself he would encourage you to do whatever you wanted to do to make you feel good and you need to make him realize how special you are by making him wonder go somewhere for a couple of days or something make him think and see how he acts and if you are in fear of him hitting you then you shouldn't be in that relationship anyways
2007-01-24 17:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by aquillacs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship, NOW. Go to court for child support and get out before it's too late.
2007-01-24 17:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by him_pker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to leave that situation....
you should be able to better ourself and you should not be stuck at home taking care of kids (especially some that are not yours) I am not saying that it is not okay to take care of kids but just if that is your choice. You should not have to be forced to do it.
get out and get something for yourself.......
Let me know how thihngs tern out!
2007-01-24 17:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he's afraid of getting stuck with kids. What a jerk.
2007-01-24 17:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny get out of this relationship right now and hurry while you can relationships like this arn't good and well sometimes these little things he has stared doing will mature and he could start threatening you or beating you or even worse please get out run hunny run don't let what has happened to my family before happen to you and your daughter please! hope i can help good luck!
2007-01-24 17:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Helper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give yourself permission to get away from him, he's too controlling. Tell him he wasn't your boss like he thought he was.
2007-01-24 17:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he is not sure he is the father. maybe you need Maury Povich
2007-01-24 17:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS CRAP! YOU NEED TO DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT COULD HAPPEN, HE COULD LEAVE TOMORROW AND THEN WHAT? NO JOB, NO EDUCATION. THEN HE FIGURES YOU WILL JUST HAVE TO DEPEND ON HIM! ITS A TRAP
THINK ABOUT YOU!!!
2007-01-24 17:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by MEESH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋