I have been with my b/f for 3yrs. He lives in L'pool and I live in London. I split with him in Sept but he made me feel guilty for breaking up with him and he persuaded me to get back with him! I split from him because i have fallen out of love with him, it was me doing all the travelling and because i had seen messages from other girls on his phone! When we split up i started seeing a friend of my bro's but when we got back 2gether i called it off with him and tried to make another go of it with b/f. Recently my bro's mate has been txtin me alot and i have feelings for him! I found messages again on b/f fone between him and his ex planning to meet up when i'm in ireland visiting family! I have been waiting to ring him up and catch him out with her or shall i jus do it this weekend when i see him. What if he denies it what do i do? He is a bit of a bully always telling me what to do! He has tried to beat me up b4 and i dont want him to attempt this again if i split with him face 2 face
2007-01-24 08:53:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your new guy about your bully ex and he will threaten him...dont put up with this treatment..he should not be allowed to get away with this.
2007-01-24 09:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get out of that relationship right away. If you're scared he's going to beat you up then do it over the phone! If he's such a bully, he doesn't deserve more than that. Also, you live in a different city so at least you won't have to see him all the time. Don't waste anymore of your life on someone you don't have feelings for, it's not fair on him (neither is it fair on him but I have far less sympathy for him since he sounds like a complete w*nker!).
2007-01-24 09:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him and this time dont go back if he makes you feel guilty. I know want its like to have a bf that hit me and made me to scard to dump him and I did it. Im now dating my new boyfriend and its a long dis but if theres no trust, then theres no hope. Dont tell him that youve seen the txts because that would make him even madder and he might hit you. If I was you and my ex lived far away from me then I would of ended by txt and said ill get the police on him if I see him again but I wasnt as luckly as you, mine lives a couble of miles away and still scard of him even now hes my ex.
Good Luck and always remember to count on you mates and family to get rid of this bully!!
2007-01-24 09:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by xx angel 3m xx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have all the evidence you need. Split up and get someone who treats you right. I f he beats you up report him to the police you can do so much better he is a total loser.
2007-01-24 09:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by maura d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him.. get an injunction if he plays up... but STOP it right now... your worth more than 10 of him... have some respect for yourself girl!.. coz you aint gettin it from him... and this bro`s mate sounds great so what are you waiting for... YOU OWE THAT TOE RAG OF AN EXCUSE OF A FELLA NOTHING!!!!!!......GET SOME HAPPINESS!
2007-01-24 09:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by tikketiboo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him girl
if he cant make the effort to travel to see you then get rid.
the fact that u said you lost feelings for him means you dont want him that way anymore.
2007-01-24 09:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's obviously not working for either of you - look closer to home!
2007-01-24 10:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of this b/f,e sounds like a waste of space and ur time
2007-01-24 09:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by penpam05 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump the rat by text & stay well away from him
2007-01-24 09:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by asdajohnlover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋