Well i just got my heart broken 3 days ago so.. i'm trying to get over it and i met 4 girls the next day after. but i only really like 1 and she always flirt and talk to me. She just takes my mind off of the my first love. Now i'm not going to say that i "love her" but there could be a spark between us... i hope. What should i do? is it to soon make a relationship? Or even to be thinking about falling in love again?
2007-01-24 08:47:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to give yourself time to heal, that is, if you did truly love this other girl in the first place. If you did, it won't be so easy to fall in love with a new girl. Three days does not get you over someone you truly love, recovery takes a while so give it to yourself and just be friends with any new girls for now. If something comes of the friendship later on, then great, but don't push it on yourself. Heal first.
2007-01-24 08:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not too soon. And your thoughts about this new girl will crowd out the thoughts about your lost love. After awhile you may find that you prefer the new girl's company to your former girlfriend's company. The added bonus will be that your former flame will get to see you happy with someone else. And so soon!! You sound like you're taking a rational approach to this matter, you realize that you won't fall instantly in love, and you seem to acknowledge that you need time to heal. So I say explore that spark!!
2007-01-24 16:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you have any clue what the term "broken heart" means. You don't have one, 3 days????? That's not even enough time to start getting over someone. Sounds to me you're just horny and want action with the next girl your "in love with".
2007-01-24 16:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow! Figure out what you want before you go for it. Don't you think its a little early for new love anyway??
2007-01-24 16:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few weeks before you try to start something. your ex may change her mind and wouldn't you b hurt if she came back to you and you had already moved on?
2007-01-24 16:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by katiej47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about how long u been knowing her and try 2 learn from your 1st mistake
2007-01-24 16:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋