2007-01-24 08:33:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
My husband did not want kids, but I did. So we came up with a plan, this is what we did. We decided not to use protection, and let god decide. Just make sure you do not get pregnant right away. Give you husband time. My husband loves his daughter. Take care
Hope your husband agree.
In a year or two have can have a baby
good luck
2007-01-24 08:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raising a child involves both of you, as you well know. When two adults cannot agree on whether they should have a child, it is best to discuss this in order that a solution reasonable to both of you may be best obtained. In order to avoid bickering, it is best to involve a mediator. As relatives and friends tend to include their personal views on the subject, it is best to use an outside mediator, preferably a marriage counselor. Through the use of a marriage councilor you and your husband can see each others position in regards to having children.
My answer stems from personal experience. ~Ben~
2007-01-24 17:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Benedetto C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a major issue. You should have discussed it before you got married. Even if he gives in and decides to have kids he might not be a participating parent and that is not fair for the children, which then could lead to divorce.
2007-01-24 16:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he not ready now or does he never want kids? If he wants to wait agree on a time. One year? Two years? Don't agree on much longer than 2 years.
2007-01-24 16:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this position. For years my husband said he didn't want a child and I wanted one very badly. We now have a 2 month old and he couldn't be happier. Maybe he doesn't know what he wants.
2007-01-24 16:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by amber_osborne2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this something that you discussed before getting married? If not, you should have!
If he doesn't want them then don't have any with him. Get a new husband.
2007-01-24 16:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Alison 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow that's touchy...isn't that an important thing to discuss BEFORE you get married??? Or did you both agree then he changed his mind...more info would be helpful I guess.
2007-01-24 16:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Mommy of 6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D I V O R C E. Perhaps this is something that should have been discussed PRIOR to marrying, eh?
2007-01-24 16:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't have kids or get a divorce and marry someone who does want them.
2007-01-24 16:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋