My boyfriend and I have been together for going on 2 years and we're very much in love. He tells me every single day how wonderful and beautiful I am and how he can't understand why he's so lucky.
We have sex a lot, and it's great, but the only thing is, when I refuse to give him sex (he wants it a LOT), he gets very flustered and tries for the rest of the night anyway. I get really upset at him and he get's ashamed for continuing on when I say stop. (Not like, rape or anything, just trying to make me want it) He's says he can't help it no matter how hard he tries.
My question is...down the road, if he gets bored with me and see's another attractive girl, is he likely to cheat on me?
2007-01-24 08:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by asyrith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have talked about this numerous times and I know he loves and respects me. He wants to marry me and be with me forever.
We have a lot in our relationship, I should have explained it's not ALL he wants, he just wants it a LOT. We have a wonderful time with each other, I was just concerned if his sex drive could get out of control some day
2007-01-24 08:47:17 · update #1
Don't believe him, he can help it. He just has to grow up and learn to control himself and respect your wishes. You don't say how old you and he are but if he is in his 20s his sex drive is still very high and his maturity level low. As a man gets older his sex drive decreases and he usually matures some as well, so he may grow out of it eventually. It's too soon to tell whether he will end up being the cheating type.
When I was in my 20s I had a boyfriend like this and although we didn't end up together he grew up into a mature guy who married and had kids and I don't get the feeling he ended up the cheating type.
2007-01-24 08:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jump Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be less worried about him cheating and more worried about how incredibly annoyed and miserable you're going to be if he doesn't cut it out.
If he can't respect your need for a little personal space once in a while, it's going to drive you nuts. You're going to want it less, because he's driving you nuts, and he's going to think you don't love him ... and ... big mess.
He can help it. He just doesn't want to. If you're both serious about this relationship, some counseling might be in order.
2007-01-24 16:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by some chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre look to far into your relationship. When he is with you, he wants you. However, if you feel that he is treating you as an object. You have to communicate to him that you want to be respected and enjoy a complete relationship. The outcome will tell you more about him than this one question could.
2007-01-24 16:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personall don't think he will. If you guys really love each other no. guys just love sex, a little challenge for him is actually a good thing, He should be a little more understanding, there is a lot more to a relationship than just sex!
2007-01-24 16:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Amber26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely yes.... guys always want to do it but grls always refuses... just like the book:
Man are From Mars, Women are From Venus...
2007-01-24 16:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by casie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... men are programmed to spread their seed.... if you don't put out he will find someone willing.
2007-01-24 16:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends how much he loves/respects you.
2007-01-24 16:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by health educator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋