Can you help me get this guy I like?

Question

I really like this guy at my school. Its a really small school (20 kids in high school) and so I see him a lot. I really like him, but he is funny, outgoing, and doesn't seem like the type to like a girl like me, who is funny and can be outgoing with her friends, but doesn't talk a lot. I talked with him a little yesterday, and he seemed nice, but not interested. What do I do? Forget him? I've have tried that, but I can't!!!! I really like this guy...it might even be love. Help?

Answer 1

If he's funny and outgoing and you are the same way, put yourself out a little, and try to talk to him more. Show him that you're a great person, don't freeze up because you like him. In a small school, chances are you have friends who know him, or friends of friends that know him...so try to go through them to be better friends. Remember, you might've liked him for a long time, but assuming he doesn't like you means that he knows nothign about you. In a sense you know a lot more about him...don't try to come across as desperate, try to be a good friend, then flirt a little after you are comfortable with it.

Answer 2

Whatever you do don't give up! You can never give up on someone you can't go a day without thinking about. I have the exact same problem! it's almost freaky how much alike we are. I live in a really small town too but we have more than 20 kids. And I'm really shy so its usually hard for me to talk to my crush unless he starts the convo. Hmm...maybe if ur too scared to talk to him in person then maybe you can chat on msn messenger. Thats what I do with my crush & I found out we have a lot of stuff in common. It also makes it easier to talk cuz u don't have to be face-to-face with them. If u can't talk to him on msn then try talking to him in person. Start off with small things like if you see him coming down the hall, smile and say hi. If he likes you back & shows positive signs then slowly start talking to him more & hopefully it will work out. Let me know how it goes! :)

Answer 3

U should never think of yourself as not good enough to be with someone. The first thing i would suggest would be for u to get your confidence up because that attracts men right off the rip. If u know and believe u are good enough he will believe it too. Once u've got that confidence getting the guy will be as easy as apple pie

Answer 4

since you've already made yourself noticeable by talking with him, its really up to him. dont get pushy because guys hate that. if there are only 20 kids in the school, im sure he noticed you even before you spoke. leave it up to him. if he's interested then he'll make it his business to talk to you again, otherwise leave it alone.

Answer 5

Dress nice, do things with ur hair, maybe put on some makeup, make urself look pretty. talk 2 him, let him get 2 know u. He may get intrested in the future,

Answer 6

You have to talk more, make you have to not care what people think about what you do.

P.S. a lot of guys like what you wear, not like pink shirt and weird pants. shirt sweatshirt open and jeans

Answer 7

i m having the same problem with a guy , i wish i could comfort you and give you advice but i got nothin . good luck and hopefully it will turn out the way you want it to.

Answer 8

Flirt [: Flirting usually always helps when guys aren't attracted to you or you think they aren't. Don't be a skank about it just let him know without saying it that you're into him.

Answer 9

don't be dumb its not love its called a CRUSH we've all gone through it.... it sucks i know but its normal there is only 20 kids in your school you feel you need someone but its probably not him ...... just be patient !

Answer 10

I'd just keep trying to get to know him...then he'll prolly get to know you better and will want you even more