Does it secretly turn men on when a woman tells a man to stop doing something that may affect their relationship? and starts acting asseritve and slightly bossy? i.e. this other woman keeps calling him, and I told him that if she wants to talk to him again, she's gonna have to ask for my permission.
2007-01-24 08:21:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. he is an 'alphamale' so I'm curious if that kind of woman would still appeal to a guy like that
2007-01-24 08:24:36 · update #1
do you think it was wrong of me to approach the situation the way I did, this woman likes him
2007-01-24 08:29:23 · update #2
^_^ Some guys love that.
2007-01-24 08:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Loretta J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the part of the other woman calling was kinda generally put to talk about that part of your question. The part of man likeing bossy gals for some man yes, it is. For more defined man that is just more like a challange, a dare of some kind those can be sings that there is work ahead and that there is still conquering to do. Man most of the time tend to be dominant in different lenguages of self expression. Look up the book "the five love lenguages." If you find ur self telling him all the time what to do and what not to do then i sugest u either learn to trust him and give him his space or find yourself a more self defined guy. You don't want to end up looking like a controlling or jelous gal in anyones life. People grow at their own peace and to be honest is naive to believe that we have the duty to raise or change anyone for any reason. Good Luck and live well
2007-01-24 08:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by vessenic3x3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 2 aspects !
was the mother of your man bossy ?? in which case he could be naturally submissive because trained to this being young !
possibly it is just a reaction now the crux of this storry is ... is she beautifull ???
and then what is your relation with him ? are you submissive to him ? in which case he needs maybe a complement ? in which case if she has to ask for your permission ... you become boss again .
in any case you are right he is your male he will never take it badly (i wouldn't) if you fix your territory i would actually look at you like a small jealous animal i love and take you to the bedroom and do you bad stuff !!! so your reaction would turn me on !
in any case it will keep the other distant !!! he's yours !! go for it !!
additionaly as a man i did this to guys that were to "nice" with my woman. She complained each time and we made great love at night (assuming it happened during evening )... so it is good !?
seriously go for it, make here ask your permission to talk to him ! your guy will be happy !
2007-01-24 08:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by tomcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not but I think some men are, I will do things for women, usually though I will be more inclined to do so if they are polite and not bossy. However, if they keep nagging I will give in but this is not hot.
2007-01-24 08:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you turn it into a game then he'll love it...like being bossy and assertive with sex is great fun, but nagging and just telling me what to do would make me start to think about the relationship...and I'm an Alfa too.
2007-01-24 08:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men are. Other men want their women to shut the hell and get them a beer and stay out of the way. There is no one type of man, just as there is no one type of woman.
2007-01-24 08:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suppose it would depend on what man - if it's my man I would probably watch. If it's a man that I don't know in a public place I would report him. Confrontation - is not necessary nor recommended. Obviously if a strange man is masturbating in public - he's got more problems than just that - do you really want to deal with that?
2016-03-29 00:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it is occasionally it would probably be ok.. but not with every thing.. with your example that might be a little much.. but it depends on the situations.. was the other woman just a friend or was she an ex girlfriend.. if was just a friend .. then that is not good.. but if she is an ex girlfriend that seems to be trying to get back together with your man.. then i dont see a huge problem there..
2007-01-24 08:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by jeeper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man loves me when I am bossy! But, don't go overboard with it. It is like Role Playing and YES, some men DO like it!
2007-01-24 08:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by bradnmich2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but I guess BEING YOURSELF n lettin HIM BE is fun which is the highest turn on!!! On the whole its self esteem n expressin urself freely , openly that counts (attracts only the right types though ;P) which is Not at all synonymous with bossin around as per me ..
2007-01-24 08:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Muskan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nice when a woman has her own ideas and know what she wants and how to get it.
Don't be to bossy. Give and take.
2007-01-24 08:25:03 · answer #11 · answered by richardleonardadi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋