Been with my boy for close to 4yrs. (both in our late 20's) Was hard at first but we've worked it out & now are pretty happy. On paper we're great. We're both professionals & have similar goals. He adores me & I trust him very much. He's very domestic; cooks, cleans, laundry, etc. The problem - he's boring! Nothing seems to excite him. He doesn't like to be social with others (but he does hang out with my friends & they all love him) and he never initiates trips or going out. I'm the one always pushing him to do stuff. Over the past year or so he's improved a lot and goes out more. But in addition to that he's not very talkative or open which is hard since I'm an open book and crave intellectual conversation. Even though he loves me to bits and I'm sure would do anything for me with enough prodding, I'm not sure he's right for me.
On the other hand I don't want to break it off with him & end up with a guy who's fun & exciting but can't be trusted or won't love me the same way. Thanx
2007-01-24 08:11:18 · 1 answers · asked by RedDevyl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know how many women would love to be in your shoes? You don't have a problem here. We all have our flaws that are tolerable. You can get around this, get him to read to you and discuss it. Be creative.
2007-01-24 08:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋