today me an my girl made out (tonge kissed) before school in the library but i was doing all tha tounging is that a sighn thats she not ready to do tha tounge thing? plus how would you know if she liked the kiss? am i pushing to hard see me an her talk on the phone an i ask her am i pushing this relationship to fast ,but she say's no but when we tounge kiss i can see something's wrong in her eyes like i really am pushing it . i mite have to say am i pushing the tounge kissing to much but still what to do? do you females like when your boyfriend talks about the relationship that were in does that give you females of the male breaking up with the female? how can i show her i love her without showing it for example:tounge kiss oh when we kiss it seems that her mouth is allways close when i try to put my tounge in her mouth she kisses like her lips are stiff an won't open what can i do to loosin her up when about to tounge kiss?
2007-01-24 08:04:55 · 9 answers · asked by dear tha unknown pt2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she doesn't know how and you're overwhelming her a little bit. Try backing up just a little and reading her body language before you shove your tongue in her mouth.Maybe its not feeling nice and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings? Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable kissing you like that at school?
Try letting her take the lead on a kiss and really pay attention to what she does...that should tell you.
Try just holding her or kissing her neck...you don't have to use tongue everytime to let her know how much you like her.
Sounds like you should slow down a little before you lose her. Don't be in such a hurry, girls can take a little longer to warm up...but when we do, we like it as much as you do! Be patient
2007-01-24 08:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you're in school...maybe she felt a little uncomfortable. Second, maybe you're not doing the whole tounge kissing all that great. Maybe you should practice a little bit. Be gentle. Don't rush it and slobber. Maybe you scared her.
Girls do like to talk about the relationship but don't over do it. You'll kill it before it even gets off the ground. Don't know how long you've been dating but I'm going to guess not very long. And if it's not that long...I'm guessing it might be too soon to tell her that you "love" her.
2007-01-24 08:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Michele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's scared. It's quite possible that you're the first guy she's ever "tongue kissed" with. She might not know how to do it. My advice, try to tone things down a little bit. And if you think you're pressuring her, maybe you shouldn't stick your tongue in her mouth but try different ways to express how you feel like rubbing her back or playing with her hair while you kiss.
2007-01-24 08:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by silence_within_chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to offer slightly greater documents: eg. have you ever interior the final 2 years began a family? must be that he has began seeing himself as a daddy particularly than a husband and lover, you need to get that spark returned by skill of spending on my own time as husband and spouse. Is is basically intercourse that's lacking or additionally communique? If communique is likewise lacking on your dating you need to basically be going your separate techniques, the fee in which you're drifting is so gradual its not often substantial yet will deliver approximately the tip of your dating in case you the two do no longer do something to end it. Is he spending time faraway from homestead greater often? there could be signs and indications that he's located somebody else yet won't be in a position of deliver himself to end your dating. asserting the certainty that he's not providing you with sufficient intercourse is a soft factor for a guy to communicate and could probable lead in user-friendly terms to much less and much less as he feels compelled, attempt spicing issues up by skill of going out for dinner with one yet another, renting a movie and basically having a romantic night in, or play a board pastime with a twist. Getting closer to a minimum of one yet another returned is the main beginning factor, do no longer tension the difficulty of intercourse, basically enable it ensue certainly. As relationships calm down, so does the quantity of intercourse, that's basically organic.
2016-11-26 23:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by geesey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she has never been kissed and or do not know how to kiss. Do not force the issue but go slowly when kissing her or perhaps just smack on the lips and ask her do she like kissing or how do she likes to kiss.
2007-01-24 08:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dumb@ss, if her lips are tightly closed, you can see in her eyes she doesn't want you sticking you tongue in her mouth, then stop.
Boy, I am in no hurry for my girls to be your age. A rocket scientist you are not.
2007-01-24 08:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude chill. Just talk to her about it. She's not going to feel like u wanna end it. And it could be a problem of LOCATION, LOCATION. Maybe a non public place would be better
2007-01-24 08:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she might not know how to do this.. or u might be her first guy she has frenched kissed.. so talk to her about it.. ask her if she likes it.. and soon she will follow ur lead and kiss and lick u.. kisses..
2007-01-24 08:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by melissa_williams31379 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try chewing on a piece of gumm first..or a breath mint...
2007-01-24 08:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋