Ok..this girl i LIke...i told someone something about her..she didnt really want me to tell anyone...i asked her for a second chance...i think shes gonna give it to me, i think she already did..but im on really thin ice..so i need some really good advice now...thanx..
2007-01-24 08:04:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, so you messed up. Now you need to prove to her that she can really trust you and that you can keep her secrets from now on. You sound like a nice and caring guy, so I hope she gives you another chance!
2007-01-24 08:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be in a relationship with this girl, You better do everything you can to prove to her that she can trust you. I don't know how old you and she is but a true relationship means that the 2 of you should now be best friends. Would you do something like that to a guy best friend?
2007-01-24 16:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are ok since you must sincerly like the girl.
somethning like that cannot be made up and is probally best not talked about much beyond letting her know you screwed up ( unless she gets to the point later when it can be joked about.)
So not as a make up precisely but let her know she is important. Make a nice alone time together, go do something unusual where you can talk and enjoy each other. (the zoo, a museum, or just a nice dinner) let her know she is important
2007-01-24 16:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by G's Random Thoughts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult situation you put yourself in....
She has readily given you the second chance, which is good of her...
You need to make it up to her now,,,
Decide what will be thrilling for her and do it right away...
Make her happy.....By her a gift...Take her out of town if u can....
Any thing at all........
Tell that someone you were lying about what u told him....
Sorry, but this is a F U C K UP...Not a missed up situation.
2007-01-24 16:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay - i think you should ask her out on a date, like take her to dinner and then on the date make sure you talk about it. Girls like to know that you are not just trying to forget it and not deal with it. So bring it up at a good time and really apologise. Then make sure you dont ever do it again!!!
Good luck!
2007-01-24 16:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop actin like a frickin girl man! she likes you because you're a guy ... so stop gossiping and telling all her secrets like a chick would ... that's why she told you! duh! now you must make it up to her ... flowers are nice, dinner is good, maybe just surprise her with a bear and some candy or something ... just to show that you really do care and didn't mean to spill the beans! do something that you know would score you some points ... good luck man ... you need it!
2007-01-24 16:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't sweat it man. Let's face it, you could have a clean, perfect record and she'll creatively find a way to make you be at fault for something. Girls specialize in the blame game.
2007-01-24 16:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like she likes you too so dont worry bout it and yall should be fine learn to keep her secrets and your relationship will go far and remember if she didnt like you she wouldnt give you another chance. So dont give up on her give her some time.
good luck and god bless
2007-01-24 16:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Loving his kiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you used poor judgement. Explain why you made the choice you did and why it was a bad choice. Explain that you now understand why it was a bad choice and why you will never do such a thing again. Then, take her out to dinner.
2007-01-24 16:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by astralpen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she tells you something that she doesn't want anyone to know don't tell them. That was a really stupid thing you did and you might never get her trust back.
2007-01-24 16:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by princess_kimnus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋