been dating this guy over a month.. he great to talk to, we spent the holidays together, he bought me a nice coat, he asks me what i want to do, he takes me places e.g concerts, he calls me everyday just to let me know what he's up to, he's trying to help me establish my dream of becoming a writer... he suggests ideas and is very honest in his criticism, he's reliable etc.. my friends sigh when i tal about him as though the're jealous or something.. wshen i told them i may be going to florida to help him choose a vacation home... they said, you can't go! hello, i'm 26 yrs old! do u think he's falling in love with me? i've never had a guy like him before.. i mean someone that's interested in what i have to say! how do i keep jelous people out of this? ps: i haven't slept with him yet!
2007-01-24 08:02:48 · 12 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice like the beginning of a nice relationship. And you are right, girlfriends can be jealous, mainly because they feel the friendship group will no longer be the same if they feel they lose you to your new guy. Don't listen to well meaning friends. Do what you feel is right for you, so far sounds as if you are a pretty sound minded gal. Do also take some time with friends, this way they will see that just because you have a guy does not mean their friendship with you is over. Girlfriends are great to have especially whenever a gal starts to have trouble with her guy, gf will always be there for you. So good luck to you!
2007-01-24 08:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, Don't worry about everyone else.Be you and be confident in your man and your relationship and all will work out regardless of what they feel or think.Those that love and truly care for you will be happy for you not be resentful of it.So, if any of them so called friends act like they are,than they are not true friends.
As far as this guy goes,do yourself a favor and don't put him up on too much of a pedestal.I mean, i am sure he is a great guy and will remain to be one but don't put him in the "perfection" category or it wont be him that lets you down someday.It will be you because you set him in a place where no man is ever going to be able to sustain.Its still very early in the relationship and just like all of us he is human and capable of making mistakes.Know that he is good but don't "blow him up" in your mind too much.Just keep yourself in reality and you just might have the one that's going to be there for the long haul.
2007-01-24 16:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow he sounds like the guy every girl should have consider yourself the luckiest girl in the world. if i were you I'd go to Florida with him and your friends aren't really your real friends if they don't want whats best for you so leave them and take that great guy. there probably waiting to see if you break up with him so they can have him
hope you choose the GREAT GUY there hard to find these days might not be another one left
2007-01-24 16:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's really like u r describing i think dont let him go!
u cant find some1 to love everyday, or even appreciate u
get jeluos people out of the way and go on with ur life,, failure would be better than not trying
and this doesnt sound like failing
goodluck enjoy every moment ;)
2007-01-24 16:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by B for bernadetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 26 years old, you're old enough to make your own decisions. Just let a friend know where you will be for safety purposes. Go! Enjoy! Don't worry about what they say....by the way, what does sleeping with him have to do with it?
2007-01-24 16:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a month going to Florida get to know him better ,if you do go make sure your family or close friends know where you are going and all info about him.He sounds like a nice guy,Give it more time to see if it is true. enjoy
2007-01-24 16:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to listen to your heart and do what feels right to you. Your friends may just be looking out for you. Tell them that you appreciate there friendship but that you really like this guy and would like there support.
2007-01-24 16:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him. Your old enough to make your own decisions. And by him wanting you to help hime pick one, he values your opinion. You have a good thing going by the sounds of it, ride it out a while longer.
2007-01-24 16:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its very great how he is wit u and 2 me it sounds like he really doz like u it can even b luv....i say ur 26 yrz old do wut u gotta do and if it means going to florida to help him pick a vacation hom go for it.......dont let other ppl tell u other wise becuz its nothing but jealously all around u......just cuz their lives are not as interesting as urz dat doesnt mean day can tell u not 2 go......
2007-01-24 16:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels if your bothing falling in love you will know durring a real face to face conversation about your feelings
2007-01-24 16:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋