Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Should i break up with him?
me and my boyfriend have a pretty good relationship, i love him to pieces. but when we fight its a whole different story. He doesnt hurt me pyscial but he still makes me want to cry at times for what he says, or maybe just how he fights, he blames everything on me and takes no responsiblity for anything
so yesterday i told him that what it he blew it, and i dont trust that he wont ever do this to me again
but now he wont stop calling me and telling me hes sorry
i hate the way he fights but when he says sorry after it makes me feel like i should forgive him and make up, because i have reasons that i love him
its not the first time i would be forgiving him either...
what should i do?
what do you think about this situation?
does the guy deserve another chance?
2007-01-24 07:53:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you have given him several chances, so the question for you is, how many more times are you going to put up with his antics and keep going back? The more times you go back, the more control you are giving him because he knows you will keep coming back. Do you want to live a life of dealing with his fighting? If not, time to move on before you invest even more wasted time on him.
2007-01-24 07:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way.
Obviously you're insecure about it if you're asking for help... and if you doubt him, then don't forget him. You don't need someone who's just going to make you feel guilty -- you can do way better. But if you're not sure, just take some time away from him. Don't put yourself in a situation that you can't get yourself out of.
2007-01-24 08:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Loretta J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg do u no how many times a lot of grls do this in relationship and guys always 4give dem.....its a normal thing wen things like diz happen in relationship.....i used to be like dat b4 2 wit ma bf but things get better wen u understand eachother later.........but if u ever question urself if u think u should break up wit him den follow ur heart.....
2007-01-24 08:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy another chance....sometimes it takes losing someone to realzie what they have done to them, and if things still dont change get rid of him for good.
2007-01-24 08:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by a_andrews07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mental abuse is very common but people don't think it's a big deal. I think both of you need counselling and you will see if you have afuture or not. If he does not own up to his responsibility, he has a problem.
2007-01-24 07:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should forgive him and just so you know, everyone fights. y'all will be okay when y'all find ur happy medium. if u love him, u'll regret it if u break up with him. everyone fights. just wait a little while, y'all will find a time where y'all won't fight anymore. don't break up with him.
2007-01-24 08:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by brooklynbaby159 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wont leave you alone tell him that you still love him but it is time to move on and find yourselfanother man.
2007-01-24 08:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋