Theres this guy that I hung out with a few times and things were going well....but then things started going bad and I didn't want to end anything but he was acting like a jerk so soon I told him that I just wanted to be friends....we still hung out at movies and stuff but he acted more like a jerk. He now hangs around this new girl and now he pretends he doesn't even know me. I hate that things became like this but I can't move on.......not that I want him to be my man.....but that I want to be friends with him and it seems like he doesn't even care about me as a friend and doesn't even put effort into saying hi to me. What should I do???
2007-01-24 07:50:33 · 13 answers · asked by ChunkyMonkey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At times like this, I try to plan as many activities as I can. Make dates with friends, go see your parents, etc. etc. Keep yourself busy. If you find this doesn't work in reducing the time you are thinking or obsessing over him, try to contain it. Tell yourself that you will think of him exclusively each night at 8:00 to 8:30 ONLY.
At other times, force yourself to do something else. When 8:00 comes, trust me. You will find better things to do. Good luck.
2007-01-24 07:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey please been there done that! Get over him, it is very difficult but trust me once you begin that process it's easy and well worth it, why keep being depressed or worried over someone that can't even say hi just keep your head up and act like it doesn't bother you even though it might right now later you'll see you won't have to ACT like it doesn't, show him he isn't needed! Spend more time with your other friends or make new guy friends and move on!
2007-01-24 15:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something I think usually may work, is for you to play hard to get as well. You start egnoring him, and act like you don't care either. Be the first to leave a room/place if hes there. Let him see that you give up. And maybe, he'll come back around. Maybe! You've heard that saying before right" if it was meant to be then he'll come back"? Well, playing hard to get can usually turn a man on. good luck!
2007-01-24 15:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget this "jerk". You don't need a boyfriend, or even a friend that acts that way toward you. He is not worth it. Tell yourself all the reasons you decided to call off the bf/gf thing and move on.
2007-01-24 15:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. He is over you. He's playing the "I'm too cool" act. Don't even bother with him. Sounds like you are very young. I'm older now and I can't even remember half the guys I kissed or hung out with. I do remember there was this one guy that I was so in love with and he dumped me over the summer. I thought my life was over...I sat and cried and wondered what I did so wrong. And today...I couldn't even tell you what his name is. So, my dear....life goes on and people change. I'll bet he'll be looking back your way...and you'll be looking the other way. Good luck and forget this loser!
2007-01-24 15:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Michele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only not moving on because you think that he doesnt care about you now and you wanted to be the one breaking it up and him regretting it.but now you're regretting it.
let me tell you. he is bothered. hes pretty hurt and thats why hes not talking to you.
you cant expect to be friends with him right away because it sounds like he was hurt by you breaking up with him. (that makes you sound bad but its just because you broke up with him, and he didnt break up with you.)
dont feel bad-its just a relationship which didnt work!
hes probably with the new girl in front of you all the time to make you jealous.
My advice: just leave it. if after a while he wants to be friends with you then cool. if not then doesnt matter. btw didnt you call him a jerk? do why do you want to be friends with him?
Anyway if you want to get a hobby like the people above said.
2007-01-24 16:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be friends with someone who doesn't care about you?
Get a life, get a hobby, get out of the house, meet new people.
2007-01-24 15:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him - ASAP and go on to other one. Life is so short to waste time on person which is not valuable for you. That's all need to be done because life can't wait ...
Wish you lucky, don't worry and have a faith in yourself
2007-01-24 16:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Presa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try becoming his friend and if he doesnt, straight out leave him and get your self a better man, that is really mature.
2007-01-24 15:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by Justin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what to do, so just do it, move on as simply and as fast as possible...
2007-01-24 15:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋