So, I loose guys left and write cause I think I don't give them what they want at the end of the dates: "the first kiss". How long can you go out with a guy and reject their attempt to kiss before he looses interest? Help me.
2007-01-24 07:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by soosool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS: I am 23 and haven't let anyone kiss me yet!!!
2007-01-24 08:09:19 · update #1
i've been goin out with a guy 6 months and we havent kissed yet...so maybe you just arent dating the right kind of guys! if they expect something from you that you dont want to do then your better off without them anyways!
2007-01-24 07:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by tennischick11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your moral code is different, and it's so rigid (not necessarily a bad thing) that you cannot allow yourself to kiss on the first, second, ninety-third date, you have to accept that it will be difficult to find a guy that has the same standards. Better tell him up front. You don't have to give him a set figure, like "No kissing until the sixth date", but I think it's commonly accepted that a date usually ends in a kiss, unless, after spending time with him, you decide that you really don't like him (or he doesn't like you). Depending on how young you are, a handshake at the end of the first date might be acceptable. But if you're not attracted enough to someone to at least kiss them, why are you even dating?
2007-01-24 07:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to lose them, then u should just kiss them. its only a kiss, wats the big deal? not like you're having sex or anything. guys leave b/c they think u dont have any interest in them b/c u dont ever kiss them. kiss them to show u r really interested. you dont have to go any farther than that if u dont want to. thats just their way of knowing if u like them or not.
2007-01-24 07:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
max is 2 dates , whats in a kiss?its not like sex or anything
2007-01-24 07:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by bayareart1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kissing is a really nice thing. if you like the guy, just kiss him.
If you don't know how to do, just let them do.
2007-01-24 07:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell if it a girl wanted to wait i would respect that decision.. i just felt like answering..
2007-01-24 07:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
NOT VERY LONG
SO KISS HIM
2007-01-24 07:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would love to know???
2007-01-24 07:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Big L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋