I dated a guy for two and a half years. The relationship was overall a good relationship. Last year, we broke up for three months because he felt pressured to get married. He came back after three months. Because of that break-up, I felt insecure and I'll admit I became a little clingy. Anyway, he started to pull away from me a little but told me that everything would be ok and we could work through it. I finally got him to tell me what was going on and he said that he wanted to be single, so I broke up with him. It's been three weeks. We talk a little and it's very friendly. Is there a chance that he will want to be with me again? Should I call him at all or wait for him to call? Does he answer my calls and is nice because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings or is he just trying to be nice?
2007-01-24 07:43:24 · 3 answers · asked by ambrosius15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can relate. I have been in a relationship for four years and my guy did the same thing. The sad thing is... i dont believe him. Yes I think he probably wants to be single as my guy does... but they dont realize what they truely have if they dont have it anymore. I sugges space and time... it has been about 3 weeks as well for me...but the difference is we still live together, sleep in the same bed but nothing more. I have tried to give him the space and truthfully he has been nicer to me. Nothing changes over night... give him the space and time he needs.... the space and time you need. People are always asking me why do i still want to be with someone that says they dont want a commitment.... the answer is because we love them and see them for who they truely are... not the stories our friends here from our mouths...
I know this is hard as it is very hard for me too.... but BELIEVE and HAVE FAITH that this will all work out.... Life does not create obstacles that we can not handle.. It is how we choose to handle them that makes the outcome so much more rewarding.
I wish you the best of luck and try to remember that you are a beautiful person who deserves to be treated well....
2007-01-24 08:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said it... He just wants to be single. I suggest you move on. You will have more fun that way. It may also trigger him into realizing what he is missing when you stop calling and stop being available. When he comes crawling back, you will probably not even be interested anymore. You deserve someone who is ready to be committed. Enjoy!
2007-01-24 15:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
THIS WILL NEVER WORK OUT
MOVE ON
2007-01-24 16:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋