while I'm at school I walk around and boys come up to me and ask me if I'm going out with so and so. I say no and tell them that I already have a man. I'm not comfortable with this. I want my boyfriend to do something about the other boys that are coming to me. What should I do????
2007-01-24 07:40:53 · 17 answers · asked by stretch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's up to you to take a firm stand.
2007-01-24 07:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off the way I see it youre going to get you boyfriend in alot of trouble. My girl is hot and she gets hit on constantly. If I beat the s*** out of everyone who talked to her or asked her a question Id stay in jail and maybe be dead. Its sucks I know but best not to tell him because sometimes trying to be too honest will just make things worse. Telling him might make him more jealous and more of control freak. Youre wanting to do the right thing but tell those guys to f*** off and leave it at that. :-)
2007-01-24 07:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well part of life is men coming on to you... It's something that you have to deal with, whether you like it or not... Let the guys know you are not interested and that's it. Why get your boyfriend involved and possibly get into a fight over something he will not be able to stop.... If they are continously disrespecting you or harrassing you that is different.
Good Luck!
2007-01-24 07:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright here's what you do. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly what you told us. Tell him that boys are coming up to you and bothering you and you want him to do something about it. Tell him that even if people like you, it doesn't mean that you love him any less. Good luck!
2007-01-24 07:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by ChunkyMonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and explain to him that you are with him and he should be very happy and proud. Tell him the other boys are bothering you...if he is a real boyfriend he will take care of it for you.
2007-01-24 07:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plainly ignore them dont give them a reason to ask. simply just look away and conversate about something else I get that all the time when I try to hit on a woman
2007-01-24 07:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..its nice that other guys like you
second, if your man is comfortable with the ralationship and trust you then he will be fine, unless he is very abusive and obessive and controlling then you dont need to be someone like that
third you dont have to tell him anything...when the other guys approach you and ask if you have a man..yes i do..and i am happy with him is all you need to say..and keep it movin....
2007-01-24 07:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen if u tell ur bf dat guys r coming up to u and he luvz u or likes u trust me his still going to get mad no matter how u say it....but if u dont like dat den i say u tell ur bf be4 someone else does and he thinks u like that thats y u havent been telling him wuts going on.
2007-01-24 07:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Then make it really public that you two are going out. Tell loads of people.
2007-01-24 07:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by Moll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I've been through this a couple of times myself. dont say it like if it were important to you say it as a joke and dont go into detail oh and make sure you tell him that you dont care cause you love him.
2007-01-24 07:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by ermosa_milagros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, that will start unnecessary DRAMA...be above that, dear! Just leave it alone! Dont start soemthing, thats not there. And since you said school, I am assuming high school. If so, def dont say anything......there will def be DRAMA if you do!
2007-01-24 07:45:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋