My friend we still have feelings for each other and love each other but he has other female friends. This one girl in particular calls and text him every day when I am around he acts as if he doesn't want to talk to her but when I am gone he calls her one night he called her 13, times but he doesn't know that I know about this. I know about her but she doesn't know about me? Could there be something between them? What would you do would you call her?and let her know that he still loves me or let it go ? Does this means that he cares about her feelings if she doesn't know about me?
2007-01-24 07:38:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby - if he's talking to another girl that much he's into her. you shouldnt call her and tell her 'he loves me", cause that isn't your place. and it probably isn't true if he's calling her that much. if you are fooling around with him and not telling people - that's sketchy. it's not ever a good sign if they don't want their friends to know about you. if you are not being intimate with him then you are just friends and he can call whoever he wants. sorry. there are better guys for you than that.
2007-01-24 07:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you two are friends, right? So technically you cant really get upset about the situation. If it bothers you that much, you should sit him down and talk to him about it. Tell him you have stronger feelings for him than what you would usually have for a friend. Once you two talk about your feelings towards one another (ex: Do you two want to remain just friends, take things to a next level, stay friends but not date others, etc.) you both should be able to come to an agreement and eliminate a lot of confusion. I know how difficult relationships can be, so good luck hun!
2007-01-24 15:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mizz.Vee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going by what you say I guess that the two of yous aren't together. I woulds say something is up. No I wouldn't call her but I defiantly wouldn't stay with him. He is just using the both of you. I don't think he loves you either. Sorry but what hes doing doesn't sound like something you would do to the person I you love. I think you should move on and go find a man who is going to treat you right and really love you.
2007-01-24 15:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is something between them. It can be as simple as friendship, infatuation, or more. 13 times in one night? He is not calling to get her grandma's recipe for meat loaf, if you know what I mean. He values her opinions and likes her. You should NOT call her. Do the mature thing and either get it straight with this guy by expressing both your feelings to one another, or leave it, him, and her alone. You cannot upset yourself with what he truly wants when you do not know what you want either. Decide what it is you want, and maybe you will get what you need.
2007-01-24 15:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by RunsWithKnife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not call her... Technically you don't go out with him, but if it bothers you that much, then he is the one to speak to... If she doesn't know about you, then it is obvious that he hasn't spoken to her about you or your situation with him...
Ask him what is going on and why is he hiding this other girl from you and telling you that he still loves..... It's the only way to get to the bottom of it...
Good Luck and God Bless!
2007-01-24 15:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He called her 13 times in one night? I'd say that he's pretty into this girl. Sorry. I wouldn't call her. Just deal with your relationship with HIM. If he's supposed to be your BOYFRIEND, then I'd probably end the relationship.
2007-01-24 15:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would turn around and check up how many interesting people have eyes for me only. This story sounds like there is no future for you, the boy is either very young or immature, anyway he is not a keeper.
2007-01-24 15:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is keeping contact with her then something is still going on and do not contact her but talk this over with him. It is a strong possiblity that she do not know about you. Tell him the game is over get real or get going.
2007-01-24 16:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he thinks he is a player by acting like he doesnt want to talk to her and then wen ur not around he calls her.....his just a horn dog i say u let him go and move on to someone better......if someone luvz u he won't lie to u or hurt u........think about it! good luck.
2007-01-24 15:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's not ready to only have one girl to juggle around. It means you're both important to him on some level and that's how he likes it.
2007-01-24 15:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋