I recently reconnected with my dad after not seeing him for 20 years. I knew I had a brother just born the last time I saw my dad, but never seen or talked to him. Now my dad tells me all together I have 2 brothers and a sister. My dads in prison yets wants me to get to know my sister and brothers. I have there phone number but havent called because I have no clue what to say to them. What should I do?
2007-01-24 07:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by mystical 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that you should, there is no need to be a solid sibling relationship, just meet them and say that it's nice to finally meet them, because if you abandon family then you won't be too different from your father.
2007-01-26 23:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I just asked this question like 2 minutes ago. We are in the same boat, I hadn't seen my father in about 15 years, last week he tells me that I have two younger sisters 24 yrs and 17 yrs. I have no clue what to do either!! Good luck !
2007-01-24 15:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by GoldenLocs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call them and say im your brother or sister from anuther mother and you would like to meet all of them, I have a nephew who is 38 and a nephew who is 7 The oldest nephew has never seen his little bother I dont know why he wont come!!You need to make contact with them and see if they wont to see you, or not, if they dont wont to see you, its there loss!!! GOOD LUKE
2007-01-24 15:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce yourself and tell them just a little about yourself and all that jazz! then causally ask them about themselves, their likes and dislikes and continue on from there. even thought you can't reach back and get those years back, you can start from this day and move forth. Good luck and i hope it all works out for the best!
2007-01-24 15:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by QueenMother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you WANT to have a relationship with these people? Just because you have a biological link, there's no reason why you have to try to be one big happy family. Decide what YOU want, don't do this just to appease your father.
2007-01-24 15:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call them say hello the rest will come, good luck
2007-01-24 16:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by melissa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them they u r their brother and u would love to feel that u r their brother
2007-01-24 16:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋