i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because he became very bossy. He told me that i couldn't do drugs (which i don't) and wouldn't let me out of his sites for nothing. Well now he smokes, does drugs and is going into the army...all of which we have had HUGE fights over. I hate cigarettes (no offense if you smoke) and he always yelled at me about drugs, and he knows that i didn't want him to go into the army...is he doing all this on purpose?
2007-01-24 07:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go on Springer and hash this one out together.
2007-01-24 07:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bam Bam M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter why he's doing it. He IS making you mad. You've only been together 5 months. It might seem like a long time but it's not. If he's already being a jerk now, imagine how he'll treat you in 2 years.
Let him go to the army and go be with someone who doesn't have psychotic blaming issues.
2007-01-24 15:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds controlling. I would get away from him. You can do better.
And on a side note....
They won't let him in the Army if he is using drugs. And they won't let him smoke if basic training.
He is going to have to straighten his act if he expects to seriously get into the Armed Forces anytime soon.
2007-01-24 16:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like hes trying to get your attention by making you mad...if you've been broken up for months now it shouldn't matter what he does...
The above is what taneah wrote, this is Gabe her b/f. If you guys were fighting about those issues and you were opposed to them, maybe he is just doing what he wanted to do before he met you. Except for the drugs, maybe he has just lost his mind or is stupid, besides isn't him ruining your relationship proof that he is a stupid-mindless fool?
2007-01-24 15:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dont be dumb stay away from him a guy who is controling like that isnt good news. Especialy if he's doing drugs. Im not sure if he's doing it to make yu made he probably just a jerk but your better off.
2007-01-24 15:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by ermosa_milagros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this whole thing about drugs. None of it is healthy a bossy man or drugs. Worry about yurself.
2007-01-24 15:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by mcqmnc329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's retarded and apparently he's doing this to make you mad. but don't worry about it. let him go. he'll get over there and be like WTH DID I DO THIS? he'll realize that making you mad just cuz he hasn't let go doesn't mean he should go to the extremes. just move on cuz he'll come back for u and when you do u better be armed and ready to say NO ARE YOU CRAZY?! lol
2007-01-24 15:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by brooklynbaby159 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has made bad choices for himself. Whether you had anything to do with it is debatable. You have no choice in the matter. Just move on with your life.
2007-01-24 15:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys were figting about it, then that means he wanted to while you were still together. which means these are things he HAS wanted to do, the army atleast. you have to understand that if the army was what he wanted to do, then he should be able to do that. if thats his dream, he should be allowed to follow it.
2007-01-24 15:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him its none of your business nor should you care sweet heart you didnt want to be with him....
2007-01-24 15:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋