i broke up with my bf of 2 months last week. i was over him the moment i hung up the phone too. i care about him but i dont want him back. i felt good when i found out he cried after i dumped him. and ever since ive had this feeling that i can have any guy i want and ive been wanting to flirt with any guy i meet, even if dont like him that much. why do i feel like this?
2007-01-24 07:19:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea youre mean, get over yourself
2007-01-24 07:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by homeboygenius 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because you are young, cocky and that in no way is bad. Honestly, if you were over the guy then you did the best thing by getting rid of him. You seem to be quite prideful from your word usage, and well, it may seem a wrong for a lot of people (and it could be if you don't know how to control yourself), but in no way does it make you a horrible person. You are confident (you wrote "and ever since ive had this feeling that i can have any guy i want and ive been wanting to flirt with any guy i meet") and that is great.
Just like a wrote, don't get too cocky and no, you are not a horrible person. And you may be feeling like this because well, you feel like starting over, and getting a clean slate always feels good.
2007-01-24 07:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its the feeling of release from something you haven't really wanted to be in.I am not sure why you felt good that he cried other than if its possible that he wasn't very nice to you and didn't show much respect for your feelings.
Don't worry, you will become more laid back soon.Its the same reaction most people get when they first feel un inhibited.Just remember not to continue playing games with those you don't have real interest in, that could only lead you to drama and hard feelings from others.Not to mention a bad reputation for being a tease and said to be un worthy if someone that's seen you like this, ends up knowing the next guy that you do like.
2007-01-24 07:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just new to the world dating is fresh and new now that you're not carrying around the burden of a relationship. Re-up and get that old confidence back, that swagger, the nostalgia of better days when everyone wanted you and it was enough just to keep your social life in order. You were probably mad at your boyfriend for a while and it was nice to see him suffer what you've suffered, which is normal. Be careful though, everyone will realize what's going on after a while and that new feeling will fade just as quickly as the relationship did ...
2007-01-24 07:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are on a emotional high after dumping your ex and finding out that he cried over you. That's why you want to flirt with every guy and thats why you feel like you do. And no you aren't a horrible person. You won't feel like this forever.
2007-01-24 07:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Bubblez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me you were fed up with his crap. You feel free and in control of your own life. That is why you want to flirt. Sounds to me like he must have been very controlling in your relationship. Go out have fun, flirt around... But be careful. Don't get yourself into a situation that could backfire on you and cause you harm. Be kind and don't deliberately hurt someone. Make sure that any guy your "flirt" with knows your just playing around.
2007-01-24 07:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by liltxrosebud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say that you weren't that attached to him and your not a horrible person, It's better to move on then to live your life moping about the past. Obviously your not a bad person because your feeling bad that you don't feel bad, you care for him even though you don't want to be with him as a g/f, my advice, just be his friend, and listen to the song "I feel bad" by Rascal Flatts, great song esp. in your situation. I think you're a wonderful person to be honest you shouldn't hold on to someone you don't love. He'll be fine. :)
2007-01-24 07:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by darkfallenangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a strong and self-confident female. Good for you! I don't see a problem with your flirting and winking at every guy you meet. Just realize that you might get some creeps interested in you that you know absolutely nothing about. But it sounds like you can handle things.
2007-01-24 07:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not just that moment,its an obvious feeling you've been harboring the moment you started dating him. Most likely he showed you,that you're a desirable person,and you took it to your head. Most girls,and I have a friend who does exactly what you do,like the feeling of having a guy,and then having other guys wanting them as well,with the same desire. My advice to you is,don't let it get to much into your head,because you'll loose focus of what you truly like,a good relationship were you aren't,doubting,or for that matter,seeing yourself better then that person. good luck!
2007-01-24 07:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he wanted you so much has given you a lot of confidence. You're not horrible as long as you don't start leading guys on that you don't like just to get more confidence.
2007-01-24 07:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Moll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine. You only went out for two months. That's not enough time to establish and build a great relationship. He just must have been way more into you than you were into him, from the start. That's not your problem!
2007-01-24 07:23:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋