You know, if they've got a bit of a crush on you but it's sort of more annoying than flattering..
How do you help them get over you since you have zero interest in them?
Being mean doesn't work. And confronting them definitely won't work since I know 100% they won't admit to liking me even if it is quite obvious.
So, got suggestions/comments? :)
2007-01-24 07:16:52 · 15 answers · asked by Basiate 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, this person is in my class so I see them every day. It is EXTREMELY hard to ignore them when they you see them every day and they insist on taking to you every day.
And one person is right - I wouldn't mind the attention normally but I'm sorry. This guy has no idea what to do around girls. Instead of coming of flirty, he comes off really ridiculous. And since my friends enjoy making fun of me for that, it's getting really old pretending to laugh along with my friends.
I would humiliate him by making it obvious I don't like him but remember - he doesn't think I know he likes me. For whatever reason, he thinks he's not being obvious at all. So if I said "I don't like you - go away" he would be like "What are you talking about?" Besides, he's always around his buddies who are just as experienced around girls as him.
If you haven't gotten the message yet, this guy is a geek. Now, there is nothing with geeks. Some of them can be quite hot - if they know how to work their stuff.
2007-01-24 07:31:57 · update #1
This guy does not know how to work his stuff. Plus, he's liked me for about 4 months and counting. 4 months - really. After 4 months...C'MON.
And I haven't been cruel to them. I've just been "mean" to them in the sense that for example, he asks me if I like his shirt and I just "No." and then he'd say "Aw, that's too bad."
2007-01-24 07:35:35 · update #2
If you really don't mind getting rid of the person then your best answer is humiliating them. Not be rude, but straight up humiliate the person. Say something in front of all of his/her friends.
But before you get to your last resort try once more just telling them you do not like them and tell them you think that he/she is being f***ing annoying. If all else fails just humiliate them.
2007-01-24 07:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it so much. Your fixation on their fixation on you is probably a good testimony to the fact that, on some level, either you really do like them or you need the attention of being liked, on the other hand perhaps it's gotten to be too much to deal with. You could help them find someone else to like, or find a relationship of your own where you're so consumed you don't care to know about it either way. No, there isn't really much you can do, it has to run it's own course with their own thoughts, feelings ...
2007-01-24 15:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want them to stop liking you? I don't think there is anything wrong with someone liking you if you don't like them as long as your not leading them on or using them. Being mean shouldn't even be a suggestion. Why would you even want to be mean to them? Did they do something mean to you? Nevermind that, i personally believe in trying to be nice to everyone. I would say stop trying to find a way for them to stop liking you. Who knows you might end up being friends with them.
2007-01-24 15:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Janice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried the meaness...and I found the only thing that worked was public humiliation. Its extremely mean, but I found that it worked 100% of the time. Just humiliate him infront of all his friends, for ex. ask why he is stalking you or something like that. Guarenteed he wont look at you again.
2007-01-24 15:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely honest with them about how you feel or just get out of their life completely. He must not have any common sense.
2007-01-24 15:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by gracious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stop. If they are your friend definitely don't say anything if they don't tell you they like you than i don't really see how it is all that anoying. It should make you feel good not annoyed.
2007-01-24 15:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let em like you. Unless they are bothering you with it. What could it hurt. If they are persistent try grossing them out.
2007-01-24 15:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them for a large amount of money.
2007-01-24 15:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by ZEBUCORE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them know how you feel and they will have to get over you, you can't do that for them.
2007-02-01 03:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by 1TON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with someone , and rub it on his his face.......heh i seen it done before. it works but it leaves the other person broken, but i guess that doesnt rly matter doesnt it?
Good luck =)
2007-01-24 15:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Mark-0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋