There is this one girl that likes me but Im engaged instead I asked her if she would like to meet my bestfriend and I showed a picture of him to her. She said yes but the way she sound was a doubtful yes. I know she rather be with me but I dont want to be with her. Help me out serious answers
2007-01-24 07:15:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get with this girl, but be really really horrible in bed. That's how I get girls to not like me any more. Then when that's over you can go back to being faithful and loving to your fiance.
If for some reason ( I can't imagine why ) that doesn't work, then make sure to talk about a lot of really boring things like fishing, or the finer points of quantum physics, or Emanuel Kant, stuff that girls hate to hear about, that'll drive her away.
Using your best friend though....disgraceful, poor guy don't you respect him. As if he would want the girl you don't want, what hell man? and her, like she can just be given to some other guy, what about her feelings. No. you should do it my way, the only humane way.
2007-01-24 07:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by DudeMan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would work to go as a group the first time. If she wants to be with you, it might get her to hang out with him. You won't want to make it a regular thing, because it will get to the point of being inappropriate. But if she meets him and likes him, maybe the rest will just happen. If this doesn't work, then just cut off communication with her. If you're engaged, you shouldn't knowingly hang out with girls you know are interested in you.
2007-01-24 07:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already meddled enough. Give the woman your friend's contact information and leave it at that. Her feelings for you must be ignored if you are truly engaged to another.
If she won't stop bugging you, tell her how you feel, and suggest that she stop immediately. If she doesn't, threaten a restraining order.
Whether or not the two of them go out or hit it off is not up to you.
Good luck!
2007-01-24 07:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to let her know that you are in love and you can't be with her no matter how much she likes you or no matter how much she cares for you.
The reason why she probably sounded doubtful is because she likes you so much that no one can take your place.Also it is very hard for a girl to like some one so much and then stop liking them all of a sudden.... So take it easy on her
2007-01-24 07:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how wonderful your friend is and that you're not that great yourself. (okay so that's a little lie but hey you dont want to date her). Just tell her how you get around and all the girl's hearts you break. Say that you're 'protecting' her by not going with her. It might work. Anyway. Setting her up w/ your friend is way good.
2007-01-24 07:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Karen Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be insulted that you're not interested, but offering up your friend as a consolation prize. She doesn't want him, she wants YOU, so it would probably be an awkward situation for her and your friend too. Try asking a girl that doesn't like you or have your friend find his own dates. Setting someone up rarely works. Does she even have anything in common with him?
2007-01-24 07:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, make it plain to her that you are engaged, comitted to your fiance and not interested in anyone else. Then ask if its okay if your friend calls her. I f she says yes, then give your friend her phone number and leave the matter with him.
2007-01-24 07:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Bethe W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your responsibility to play matchmaker just because you're not available. She made her move, you said no, you went the extra step of trying to set her up, she's acting funny about--leave it at that! Put your focus and your energy on your woman, not this girl!
2007-01-24 07:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Angela B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth...I know that might sound scary but the truth though it may hurt is the best way out of a situation like this one....example "Hey, i like you you are a great person, but I am in love with (name) there is never gonna be anything more then friendship between us"
2007-01-24 07:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by ashley32754 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not your problem. She likes you and you're engaged. You aren't obligated to find her a boyfriend. If she doesn't want to meet your friend then....oh well!
2007-01-24 07:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋