we're together for like 2 weeks now...and today I got an SMS that she feels like i'm not serious about it and just playing around with her.i replied that ofcourse i was serious about it..i kinda freaked ..i really like her....what should i do next??i'm trying my best.should i express my feeling for her?...
2007-01-24 07:09:21 · 17 answers · asked by zoli_zly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you all for your answers..
2007-01-24 07:16:33 · update #1
hey don't stress out about it, us girls just get emotional about stuff and she's probably just worried your not that into her, keep in touch with her enuf so she doesn't think you don't think about her, get her a gift
2007-01-24 07:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by shine_on 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be as honest as you can without hurting her feelings
sometimes girls get full on too quickly- it doesnt mean that they are stalkers, its a weird thing where they want to feel like the most important and special girl ever- like the one you would always be hung up
if you asked her to marry you shed probably freak
if you really like her then tell her you feel like she could possibly be that one special person , that you have a good feeling about her and you already think she is the most beautiful girl ever but you are both still young and so you dont want to rush things, that you want to enjoy finding out about her
if that doesnt make her feel special then maybe she is too insecure.
Also you should balance things, o.k a girl likes her man to make an effort, but if you buy flowers and chocolates every day it is predictable and stale.
words are just as powerful and things like holding her face and looking into her eyes can mean more than any gift.
2007-01-24 17:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by flossie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life. Stop being a pushover. Have an evening out with the boys and put everything into perspective. By that I mean - you are immature and should run back to Mummy; she has seen that you are a millionaire and wants your money. Say no more.
2007-01-24 15:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by D M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't express your feelings right now because she seems a little panicked take her out to a restaurent and tell her she is the best thing that happened to you and that if she thinks your not serious talk to her that is pretty darn serious.
2007-01-24 15:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She seems a little needy to be like that after only two weeks.
I would tell her that you do enjoy the time you spend together but your trying not to move to fast. Or if you REALLY like then tell her "hey I really like you, this how I am and if you need more from me then tell me and we'll work on it together."
That'll get you some!!
2007-01-24 15:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old you are but I would meet with her and ask her what it is that leads her to believe that you are not serious.
Then ask her what it is that she would like your relationship to be like. For example, to go out more, be more romantic pay more attention to each others interests. Let her tell you.
Try not to conduct too much communication by text. It is very easy to mis-communicate when you are not face to face. Sometimes people will say things by text that they never have the courage to say to your face.
Let her explain herself in person.
2007-01-24 15:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by smiler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy now! it's far too early to be suggesting commitment... you should be playing it cool and being mysterious for at least another 2-3 months yet
You need to be erratic with your SMS back to her... vary it between 5 minutes and 2 hours to keep her guessing what you're thinking
2007-01-24 15:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by gareth_bancroft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is testing to see if you`re interested - play it cool, dont tell her too much - it might freak her out too. After all its only two weeks nto the relationship
2007-01-24 15:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by sarahlou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being tested and she's wanting some a$$kissing. I figure you should play along once. Once only. If this kind of childish demand for attention becomes the norm, broom her.
2007-01-24 15:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to provoke a reaction, needs a bit of reassurance. If you like her then express your feelings as much as you like.
2007-01-24 15:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋