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My son died11/11/07. The death certificate indicated pneumonia. He was a troubled soul and I miss him.....there is not a word to describe it. PLEASE HELP ME! He was the light of my life.

2007-01-24 07:06:38 · 24 answers · asked by strider 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

We just received the death certificate and it indicated pneumonia. He was sick for about 5 or 6 days before he passed but would not go to the hospitak because he had no insurance. Was it just his time? Wa someone there to meet him?

2007-01-24 07:11:20 · update #1

We just received the death certificate and it indicated pneumonia. He was sick for about 5 or 6 days before he passed but would not go to the hospital because he had no insurance. Was it just his time? Wa someone there to meet him?

2007-01-24 07:11:40 · update #2

We just received the death certificate and it indicated pneumonia. He was sick for about 5 or 6 days before he passed but would not go to the hospital because he had no insurance. Was it just his time? Wa someone there to meet him? I'm sorry I'm still in shock. Michael's death was 11/11/06. My mother died three weeks after Michael. Thank you for those with some compassion and Please excuse the errors and your ignorance of someone going through unbearable pain.

2007-01-24 07:20:06 · update #3

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uh...your son died in Nov. of THIS year???

2007-01-24 07:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by ☆MWφM☆ 7 · 4 1

I am sorry and realize you're in pain. But please don't look to a "charlaton" to help you. Sylvia Browne told the family of the previously missing Missouri boy that he was dead. As we know, he was not. She is a scam artist and she prays on people like you who are vulnerable.
Having a great faith in your God is what helps with the pain you are dealing with. If you don't have a religion or church, I would think that any priest or minister would be happy to talk to you. But have faith that there is life outside of this realm and we will see the people we love once again and we will live in happiness forever with them.
Think of your son and how much he loved you. He would want you to go on with your life and find happines for him. He would not be able to bear the thought of you hurting and being sad. Feel your pain and realize it will be there every day but it will get better. I urge you to speak to someone. There are stages to grief and once your recognize those and see that you are going through them, you can begin to understand the process you are in.

I am sorry about your son. I assume he was an adult? I hope you weren't estranged from him. But if you were (and you say he died of pneumonia and I can read into that what probably was happening in his life) but remember it is not your fault and you can't change what was. You can only change what will be. Remember the good times and cherish his memory. I hope you begin to heal soon and I am so sorry.

2007-01-24 15:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 1 0

If he's okay?
Um, he died, right? That pretty much settles that question.

You're not making any sense here, which might explain why you'd appeal to Sylvia Browne for help. She's a fraud, you know.

I'm sorry about your loss, and offer my sincere condolences. As someone else said, a parent should not have to see a son or daughter's death. It's a terribly sad thing, and you have all of our sympathies.

2007-01-24 15:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am sorry for your loss. I am no Sylvia Brown, but Please know this that they both were not alone. When you are thinking about them, they are thinking about you. If you feel something touch you like a feather on your skin they are near you and letting you know that they will never leave you. They became your guardian angels. He will always be the light of your life, and no one can ever take that away from you.

2007-01-24 15:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0 1

My son has been missing in Chicago for 2 months, doesn't look good. We have put him in God's hands, but it wasn't easy. When we realize we are all going to leave this world someday, it is not a bad idea to think about your spiritual beliefs and find some way to accept. So many of my dear friends have gone on, my personal beliefs are that no one disappears but simply waits for us to catch up. Our son is 19 and typical of a 19 year old, found plenty of opportunities to mess up. But if God can forgive me all the messes in my life he will forgive Jesse. I believe in the love and forgiveness of God. I hope you find something that brings you peace, God bless you and your son.

2007-01-24 15:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 1 0

I would like for you to talk to someone. My boss is a doctor and she just lost her troubled daughter and didn't get to say goodbye either. She is in so much pain. Maybe you two could be some comfort for each other. You never know. My email is ktlogan98@yahoo.com

2007-01-24 15:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by gracious 2 · 2 0

I hope you are not making a joke of this, and I feel badly for you if this indeed did occur. However, Sylvia brown is a fraud, I wouldn't trust her with such important matters.

Your son is beyond all pain and worry now. I think you should try grief counseling instead of psychics to help you.

2007-01-24 15:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Quest4questions 6 · 3 2

Only God knows, and certainly not Sylvia Brown......she's not who you think she is,and she will tell you things especially on the TV just for publicity,she 's not who you should seek for that kind of information

2007-01-24 15:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by purpleaura1 6 · 2 0

Um why are you making a false staement ?
11/11/07 has not happened yet

2007-01-24 15:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Blow 2 · 3 1

The loss of a child or a loved one is painful. Take as long as you need with your grieving process but please don't invest your time, money or emotions in psychic swindlers like Sylvia Brown and the like.

2007-01-24 15:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by pinwheelbandit 5 · 3 1

I imagine the 11/11 is a typo, y'all. She sounds distraught....easy to typo a date when you're upset. She most likely meant 1/11.

Sorry for your loss.

2007-01-24 15:14:52 · answer #11 · answered by glitterkittyy 7 · 2 1

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