2007-01-24 07:02:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
empty the bank accounts fast!
2007-01-24 07:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would think long and hard about the friend that told you. How good of a friend is he/her. How does that friend know that your wife found out. Is it possible they told her, or they just want you to tell her. Even if your wife didn't find out, it will be hard to live a lie. Tell her and ask for forgiveness if you care, or tell her and then end it if it is really over. I think you should tell her and live with the consequences. You made your bed, now you have to lie in it.
2007-01-24 07:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by K L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to be able to say that she will forgive you, but that only happens in movies. To her it is the ultimate betrayal and she may not ever trust you again. If you want to keep your wife, then talk to her about it and tell her how much you love her and how much you want to work out your problems. It may take a very long time for her to trust you again and she may not ever trust you. I was once cheated on the i can tell you from experience, the hurt just doesnt go away, ever. Good luck in your relationship but remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
2007-01-24 07:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Cool Callie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of I hate cheaters! Second I say you lie your azz off. Does this friend of proff? If not then lie or you will lose your wife. And try to get rid of the other women in your life. If you like this other women better than you do your wife than leave your wife. But if you love your wife more then leave that other women. Your just crazy. Don't ever cheat again because you WILL get caught sooner or later.
2007-01-24 07:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go talk with your wife, it's going to be a long road with a lot of heart ache, esp for her. Her companion, life partner, etc. just pretty much threw everything away. Step up to the plate and talk with her about everything. See if you can save your marriage.
2007-01-24 07:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by dudeinnorcal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know that there is anything you can "do". Adultery breaks trust and faith and those things take time to earn. The best you can hope for is that your wife forgives you and eventually you can work through this. But it will take time for her to trust you again and to get through it herself. My husband did that to me and we are no longer together. But in my case it wasn't just once and that is what was hard to get over. Hopefully, you did it only once and your wife is forgiving and somewhat understanding. Just keep in mind once you violate someone's trust in you, it doesn't heal overnight, it takes time.
2007-01-24 07:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the bullcrap and say your deeply sorry and you swear it will never happen again.
Only if you mean it though.
Be prepared to eat crap, and kiss her butt thoroughly.
Admit you messed up. Don't argue and bring things up from the past. Give her every statement by not arguing. Listen to her words and respond thoughtfully.
Make sure she knows that other woman means nothing to you and it's over. AND MAKE SURE IT IS.
2007-01-24 07:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by freakazoid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray
2007-01-24 07:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and move on. You can't dwell on shitty mistakes, but you can prove to her that you will be a better husband from now on. Good luck and don't do it again.
2007-01-24 07:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vowels...hehehe, that's funny. Personally, I don't have any advice or sympathy for you. You made a concious choice to step outside of your marriage, so you pay the consequences for it
2007-01-24 07:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Goodbye
2007-01-24 07:10:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋