in 7th grade and we are having a valentines day dance soon and I'm scared to ask this guy to the dance becasue I've never asked a guy to a dance they have always asked me so what should I do? or what should I say? Please help me
-Jessikaw
2007-01-24 07:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by Jessika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, first, you need to get his attention. say "hi, how's going". and the next day, say the same, but also have a small chitchat (talk about his interest, school, teacher, etc something that he'll reply back). this will make things less awkward. once you feel comfortable talking to him and i'm sure to you. work up this question "are you going to the dance?" here is your chance to know the status. from there it would be easy.
2007-01-24 07:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG this just happened to me recently! I'm in 9th grade and I asked my crush to go to our winter formal with me for the first time ever!
Well choose a certain day to do it - preferrably a day when you're feeling your best. Make sure you look and feel great! You may feel really nervous right before you ask him, but just think about how much fun you're gonna have with him if you actually ask him! You can say something like,"Hey ____ I was wondering if you were going to the dance with anybody?" If he says no, then it's simple from there! A "Do you want to go with me?" is perfect.
It's totally worth it, and you'll feel awesome later! Good luck!
2007-01-24 07:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him when he is alone and ask him if he is going to the dance? If yes, then say great, who with and then I'll see you there.
If he says he is going but alone, then ask if he'd like to take you. I think we could have fun together and it is boring going alone. what do you think????? (Yes) Great . I can meet you at the door, I will buy the tickets ahead of time or you can stop by and get me on your way there....whatever is best for you?
Great I'll be ready at 7....
2007-01-24 07:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Guys are afraid to ask girls too, but they just do it anyway.
He will be very flattered that you asked him to dance. Just go up to him, smile, and say, "Do you want to dance?"
Unless he is a total clod, he will gladly trip the light fantastic with you.
2007-01-24 07:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really want to ask him to the dance, then be confident, ask him if he would liek to come with u, or maybe if u noe that he is somewhat interested then ask him! dont be shy!
2007-01-24 07:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl.. well.. its okay..theres always a first time for everything!.. just say "hey wats up... so have u heard about the dance coming up?".. and than he'll answer...and than say.. "well i was sorta wondering if u wanted to come with me?"...... hope all goes well!..good luck!
2007-01-24 07:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you hand him a valentine card asking him, or even put it on his locker?
2007-01-24 07:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath and try to ask him in similar way:"I was wondering if you wold like to go with me to the party as my date?"
2007-01-24 07:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really shy to so I don't know what to tell you. I say just go for it and see what happens.
2007-01-24 07:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋