What if my brother is one of them,we used to be like best friends but now we hate each other and always competing and I really getting tierd of him and his actions
2007-01-24 06:45:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I hate to quote Dr. Phil, but here goes .... "If you look at every negative relationship you've ever had, you will find that the one common denominator in every single relationship was you".
There is no single person in this world who does not have some negativity in them; it just needs the right person to bring it out (and yes, I'm looking at you right now lol).
Instead of eliminating people from your life, try being a positive person in your public life and see which people react positively to it and which ones run in the other direction. The ones that run weren't worth keeping anyway.
2007-01-24 06:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
worry! this is the final of unfavourable thoughts to pass away us. If we try to think of a international with out 'worry' everywhere, there is no shrink to what human beings can carry out. With such large overall performance, prosperity peace and happiness could purely save on with. the different negatives like anger, hatred, jealousy and so on will discover survival too complicated. purely attempt to visualise our very own guy or woman character minus that 'worry'. There could be a substitute in our attitude in direction of existence. Even with out that worry of death, there could be no liimit to our performances in on a daily basis existence! There ought to have been certainly a time, it sluggish in the process the classic circumstances, whilst majority of the individuals lived worry-much less-ly! The litmus attempt is intense social point of spirituality!
2016-11-01 04:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to "X" out all the negative people in your life, but be VERY careful who they are in relation to you.
X out the ones who don't mean much to you in the first place, but family is another story. X out the ones who are distant anyways. But in your mind you should give the closest ones several chances to be in your life. Your brother should stay for now.
People change and it would be better if they changed for the better while they were still in your life than them changing for the better and resenting you for picking them off like tin duck in a shooting range.
Just think on it for a year or so when it comes to family. Lots of things change.
2007-01-24 07:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by freakazoid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you don't REALLY hate your brother. He IS your brother after all. We don't always have to LIKE the people we LOVE.
And, YES! It IS O.K. to remove your brother from your life if you clash THAT badly. Just be sure to leave the door open in case you decide you would like to mend fences.
Everyone changes with age and life experiences. Your brother may eventually turn out to be someone you will WANT in you life.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-24 07:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Renee D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be blunt, negative people SUCK!!! Their behavoir and natural disposition is just broadcasting how unhappy and unsatisfied they are in life. These are the same sad lost souls who reslish the misfourtunes of others. Yes, he is your brother, but can you control how much or how little interaction you have. You only have one life to live and I chose not to exert any effort into people who make attempts to drag me down to their level!!!
2007-01-24 06:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny5 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are negative people (people who hurt you) and there are people who challenge you. The latter isn't such a bad thing. I would choose which of those categories that your brother falls into.
2007-01-24 06:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean about removing all the negative people in your life? i love my brother so much. i wont do that to him.
talk to him - thats all i can suggest.
2007-01-24 06:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea's Momi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET SOME SPACE BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU, DON'T CUT HIM OUT, BUT TAKE A BREAK FROM EACH OTHER
2007-01-24 07:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by jules27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋