okay i try to do everything for my b/f. im there for him when hes sick, i get him food when he doesnt have money on him, i do things for him, i clean his room sometimes.....i mean i love doing stuff for him to help him out. well...why doesnt he return the favore? i didnt get anything for my b-day or for christams and i got him something. he preferes to be with his friends most of the time insteade of me, he talks to me all mean and with an attitude. its horriable. i didnt think having a g/f that does so much for and cares a bout you would still do that to her!
2007-01-24 06:41:29 · 12 answers · asked by britni h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, that's not a b/f, it's a leach! DUMP HIM!
2007-01-24 06:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm having a similar situation. It's aggravating. Just tell him off and stay away from him. If he comes back and apologizes, then let him know he needs to show you he's sorry. Words don't really mean much if the actions don't follow. If he doesn't come back, you never needed him in the first place. Find someone else. It sucks to be alone but its better than being treated like crap. Keep your head up.
2007-01-24 14:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by ct7296 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just using you. Dump his a** and fast. Guys only act like that when they have zero interest in you, but are getting too much out of the relationship to walk away from it. You're a total doormat for him. A guy who actually cares about you will not act like this, so move on.
2007-01-24 14:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you doing these things becuase you love your boyfriend or becuase you expect him to recipricate in some fashion? YOU are the one doing "everything for my b/f." YOU are the one making yourself a doormat. I would think that by now you would have woken up to the obvious fact that he doesn't care about you the way you care about him. It's not rocket science...I can see it and I don't even know either one of you. So, you can either continue to ALLOW yourself to be used or not...it's YOUR choice. Stop blaming him for YOU making the choice to be used.
2007-01-24 14:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one respects the "help"...keep acting like "help" and you get treated likewise...
Stop being a damned maid and be a WOMAN...he takes you for granted because you allow yourself to be his DOORMAT!!
Get off your knees and stand-up on your feet and walk the hell away from his azz!!! PERIOD!
2007-01-24 14:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, STOP DOING SO MUCH FOR HIM!!! you can do way much better. its obvious he doent care. you want a caring guy, one who will love you forever and that will always want to be with you, he nmight want some time to himself but you are going to need it to. trust me. i had the same problem. now i have a better boy. and u can get one too.
2007-01-24 14:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Renee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too good for him.
He should be showing you how together you can try to achieve the extraordinary.
The very least he could do is get you a birthday present
2007-01-24 14:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by malcolmg 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG! Dump the jerk! I will never forget my girlfriend brithday or not giving out gift in Christmas...
He is a big loser than me...
2007-01-24 14:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by PS3 Fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is reacting as you are his wife & not a gf. So just act like you are going to give him divorce & see how he reacts.
2007-01-24 14:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wasting your time.
2007-01-24 14:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋