We spent 6 years together, then I moved out of country to achieve my goals. He didn't want to do anything in life and I left him 2 years ago. His sister is my best friend, and lives in the same area I live. I have a new relationship (10 months) so does my ex (with a mini-me). He once checked my email, and called me to tell me about my new bf. And now that I heard from his sis that he has a mini-me as gf, I can't stop checking his emails. I gotta say that hurts when I see her love emails for him. But I know that is over, and I love my new bf. Or am I wrong? How can I stop?
2007-01-24 06:35:18 · 9 answers · asked by Lai 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really think you should stop checking his emails.
You have to be able to move on in your life... especially when you have someone new now.
I have a friend who constantly checks her ex's emails, websites, etc. She called me one day FREAKING OUT because he changed his password on his website. I told her it's good that he changed his password. She should take it as a sign to move on.
You can't let go of the past if you keep going back to it.
2007-01-24 06:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you can't stop because you still have some feelings for him. Its okay because you have been together for 6 years. Give yourself some time and take it one day at a time. do something else not related to your ex boyfriend when you were supposed to check the email. I don't want to say that you would forget because you are best friends with the sister. It will take some time.
2007-01-24 06:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by jessrich1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident i could apparently your spouse has on no account gotten over this guy and is likely pondering an affair with him he's likewise on no account gotten over her the sentiments are mutual right here and meaning difficulty. you will be able to desire to confront her approximately this e mail and ask her what she is doing chatting with an previous flame?. She is disrespecting you and probably breaking the vows of marriage. it is erroneous if the tables have been became I doubt she could be happy with you e mail an previous female pal. unravel this if she is gloomy interior the marriage then you definitely choose some counselling and time to make your strategies up undemanding approaches to repair this. Her no longer telling you her ex. BF lives in this new city is extremely suspicious?. i could be pissed if I had got here upon this counsel out. She is being very secretive and that's one concern you're no longer assume to have in marriage is secret's. God Bless and terrific needs.
2016-11-01 04:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to stop. Why do you feel so compelled to read his emails? Do you still have feelings for him? Or are you just curious about his life? Cut the ties if your involved with someone and delete him and his address from your life. Move on....
2007-01-24 06:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong. You should tell him to change his password so that you dont have access any longer. It's breaching a moral code of ethics to be nosing around in his stuff plus, that's got to be very time consuming and emotionally draining.
Do it for yourself, you're worth it tell him to change the password.
2007-01-24 06:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still in love with your ex , if you love your current bf stop reading them and forget it
2007-01-24 06:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by texas_krystle_23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remind yourself that if you are caught you will end up in federal prison.
2007-01-24 06:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST STOP............FIND ANOTHER GUY TO EMAIL
2007-01-24 06:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just nosey.
2007-01-24 06:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋