2007-01-24 06:03:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok i moved from my high school bristow oklahoma in 2002 to tulsa to go to vcs. There i met not only one of my closest friends, but my first love and i still do love her and always will. we were good friends and she has had a rough life and ive always sort of been there for her, but anyway i fell in love with her and one day she called me and wanted to meet up before i left for college so we did and she sat me down told me that she loved me and how i mean the world to her then i tell her i love her. then i went to college at osu and she is now at uco and we hardly talk. the only time we talk is when i text her, and i go buy her something for her birthday or for christmas. Ive been real depressed why dosnt she want a relationship with me?? i love her and if she loves me then we should be together. she means the world to me and i would die for her and she knows it what should i do. have any ideas please let me know ive been really depressed for a really long time and i really do love her?
2007-01-24 08:01:50 · update #1
not necessarily,, true love, to me, is seeing the person for who they are,,,,,,,,accepting them as an addition to your life,,, while they can bring great things into your life , not expecting to find your happiness in them,,,,,, being able to accept that the two of you might not work (be good together) and being able to love them from a distance if they are not good for you or you for them,,,,
2007-01-24 06:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel for you guy, I really do. And I know that what I'm about to say may not make you feel any better, but it's the truth. When you both were at Victory (I live in Tulsa too) - you were both in a much different environment - you were close - every day, you were in a small, sheltered, Christian environment, that forced closeness. College is a totally different ballpark. You are now both away from home at the same time, and in two totally different cities, schools, and surroundings. My advice is, if you love her, let her go, and try to focus your mind on the Word of God, and your academics right now. Go and meet new people, and enjoy the experience. I know it may be really hard, but your feelings will catch up in time. If you have faith, you already know, that if it is truly meant to be, she will come back around, and it will be it. If she doesn't come back around, God has something else in mind for you. Good Luck!
2007-02-01 05:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Aims4usa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has had a rough life she may not know how to show it...
Does she always return you calls, tex mes, always say yes to your invites? May mean that she has the same feelings that you do but don't know how to express them.
At a time that you feel that you can talk openly bring up that old conversation and tell her you still feel that way and just see what she has to say, maybe she is waiting for that too, just because your not right there together all the time doesn't mean she feels anything less. i was cool with my relationship but the guy wanted clarity of am I your boyfriend can this go farther, because we were friends and times together was good. I was SO glad that he asked.
True love is not pushy or over bearing, it is easy and flowing...once you know the other person feels the same way. Just talk to her..it is better to know, then you'll know where you stand. Good luck!
2007-02-01 03:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this is the most difficult question that mankind must have come across. How ever if you remember the words of the "Oracle" in the Movie "Matrix", "..."you will just kniow it", yet you may not be able to comprehend the same.
To answer the second part of your question, yes, if you love some one it is the "fundametal" right (in the relam of love) to be with the person you love, provided your lover is comfortable with it.
2007-01-24 06:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
true love...thats what everyone wants to know an have ,...You just know when its true love its like no other feeling in the world. Yes if you love someone you want to be with them , thats all you want is them and it becomes your mission to make them happy
2007-01-24 06:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by texas_krystle_23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
true love is
when u love to keep in touch with them
when u enjoy their company
when ur heart beats so fast
when u think of them every single day and every single second
when u have something in common
when he/she tickles ur heart
And yes when i love someone i do want to be with them!
2007-01-24 06:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Pinky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can love people in so many different ways. you will know if its true. if you think you don't want to be with someone you probably don't
2007-01-24 06:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily... I love my parents, but wouldn't want to live with them 24/7.
2007-01-24 06:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes but love can also be decietful.
2007-02-01 05:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by The Russian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just to be with them, but to be without them. It has a lot to do with trust.
2007-01-24 06:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋