my girlfreind dared me to wear panties under my shorts. We went to a party and she and her freinds pants me in front of everyone. I was laughed at and ridiculed. Why did she do this? Should I continue to see her?
2007-01-24 06:00:42 · 16 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's a keeper, fun fun fun.
2007-01-24 06:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by kiti4u 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People who care about someone would rather die than see that person hurt or humiliated. I think we can conclude that this "girlfriend" is not an overly caring, loving or compassionate person.
It's your call as to whether to dump her or not, but the best predictor of how people are going to behave in the future is how they have behaved in the past. Are you up for more of the same kind of treatment as she gave you? If not, I think you know what you need to do.
Maybe you could pass her along to someone you don't like very much? ;-))
2007-01-24 06:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! She humilated you in front of her friends once she will do it again. It was insenstive and uncaring and the fact that she encouraged you to wear it at the party means she sinisterly planned to humilated you at that event in that way.
If you choose to stay with her your esteem will go to a whole new low and she will not care one bit. Be careful of allowing persons to control you in that manner. Take care and i wish you the best.
P.s. Make sure she knows exactly how you feel about what she did!!
2007-01-24 06:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its funny....yes if you love her keep seeing her..did you do something to her , an that's why she did this ,to get you back. either way i would laugh it up thank God you have a girl with a sense of humor not to many people like that out there. You might be upset now but later you will laugh about it , yall are just making memories ....get her back she would prob love it
2007-01-24 06:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by texas_krystle_23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bro, did she put you out there. Yeah. But, remember-your the big dog, roll with it and play along. Treat every situation like it benifits YOU and turn the tables. Heck I would have dropped my pants and started strutting. Don't lets chicks get into your head!
2007-01-24 06:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No shes a ***** dump her have you never seen that episode of friends if not watch it Julia Roberts is in it it may give you clarity or you could egg her house
2007-01-24 06:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by mriee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she honestly apologized?? if she has then it was probably a spur of the moment thing and she feels bad about. If she apologized but still laughs at you and tells people then i say you dump her.
2007-01-24 06:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by ad121ana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you let her punk you into wearing panties?
Man up and dump the hoe. And please grow a pair before posting again!
2007-01-24 08:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tough Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was a joke. umm do you trust her? did you tell her you didn't like it? if you really like her and can trust her again i would forgive but if it is gonna hurt the relationship end it now! don't get more involved!
2007-01-24 06:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by porkey_jrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are seriously still seeing her! wow i would have dumped her on the spot. that is cruel and not right. no one deserves that.
2007-01-24 06:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by shadowsredangel6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st - she straight punked you and you took it.
2nd - why on EARTH did you leave the house with them on
3rd - If she loved you she wouldn't of embarrassed you.
2007-01-24 06:06:39 · answer #11 · answered by yaiyai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋