On my basketball team I like this guy.His name is Hobie.I want to have sex with him but were not dating.I'm single but my friends are all dating!!!!!!How can I get him intimidated by me.Plus we hardly ever get paired up for partner exercises.Plus I'm 22 and female.
2007-01-24 05:56:11 · 22 answers · asked by tikitikithunder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What?? Why would you want him to be intimidated by you?
2007-01-24 06:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have physical relations with this young man, why the heck would you want to intimidate him. Men do not like to feel intimidated by ladies. You should be working on befriending him and showing an interest in things he likes besides Basketball. Find out from other what he likes to do away from the court and ask him out. The worst thing that could happen is he says no, and you said yourself your hardly ever get paired, so, it will not effect your playing if he does say no. Take the risk and ask him to a movie, diner, or dancing (whatever he likes and then make sure he knows that you are on the menu for dessert if he likes)
Tracylyn S.
2007-01-24 06:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, do you really want just a one-night stand with him? Because that would probably be easy enough to arrange... many guys are open to the idea of commitment-free sex.
But is that really what you want? Or would you prefer to be dating him, to have an actual relationship with him? Just start talking to him after practice - discuss how the team is doing, what you learned at practice that day, tactics, etc. Then suggest the two of you continue the conversation over coffee or dinner.
2007-01-24 06:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I wish, I had been so lucky to have a girl with such thoughts for me. You can befriend this guy (and not intimidate), if you feel you can get along then go ahead. How ever I will advise you to be careful or you might jeopardize the entire "mission"
2007-01-24 06:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 22 you shouldn't be having sex with a boy.
2007-01-24 06:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a slut! looks are nothing, but in his case he can say i had her, good f--k. if thats you want go for it, but all you have
to do is play a game make him want you, your a girl- that the easy part, be nice, ack like you care about the stuff he does.
then he shuld ask you out. then maybe on the 3rd date let him have it, even then play hard to get,
2007-01-24 06:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by crazy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There you go: you are 22 and female. You have the bait, he'll come get it if it's tasty enough.
But don't make a reputation for yourself as being a whore.
2007-01-24 05:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just kinda have a one night stand. may be stay up late for practice, i guess alone. then, make ur way and later tell him that it was just had a bad breakup so u were desperate and horny...
2007-01-24 06:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 22, and you are struggling that much? Hah. Man... I love my life.
2007-01-24 06:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Syn_Shadows 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it sounds like all you want is sex. so just ask him for it. why bother dating? since you don't seem to care about him..
2007-01-24 06:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋